Ok, I'm engaged but my fiancee is living abroad as of now & we're going to be with each other again later this year.. The last time I made love was 6 months ago.. I feel like I'm going to burst anytime! LOL! A male closefriend is flirting with lately.. should I give in to this or just celibate & wait for my fiancee (Another 6-7months)? Gosh! I feel like sex deprived right now? My mind says no but my body is betraying me! LOL! What do you think? Help!
2007-05-17 06:17:18 · 26 answers · asked by Pink Blossoms 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stay away from this so called "friend"
2007-05-17 06:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you??? It's your fiance and you guys are going to get married anytime, so don't let one night of pleasure spoil your entire life with your fiancee', because remember that if you sleep with your friend and with you fiancee, you are sleeping with both or even more, so don't even think of it. Wait and keep mind away from it, just find something else to do.
2007-05-25 03:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure its really hard to wait for your fiance, but imagin how hes feeling?? Just learn to take care of yourself. And stay away from the "So-called" friend. He'll just end up helping you to lose your fiance. And is that worth it? And trust me, you'll be so much happier with yourself if you wait for your fiance. Watch some pornos...get some toys...and enjoy yourself for now. And once your fiance gets home..you two will appicate eachother much more then! lol!
2007-05-24 11:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u feel like making love with another,lets say at least once a month, its a cause of what we call ovulation period, women on their ovulation has a high desire on sexual activities, i guess what you have to think about is, self discipline because once u get married with ur fiancee the more u have to control your sexual desire. Gud luck and most of all pray harder.
2007-05-24 15:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you found out your fiancee felt the same way and acted on it, or how do you think your fiancee would feel it he found out you slept with another person. What happens in the dark, usually comes out in the light.
2007-05-25 04:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Country girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are engaged to be married and already thinking about cheating then I think that you should reconsider the whole marraige thing,to me if your wanting to be unfaithful now what's going to happen in the future? If you really love this guy you should not be asking this question at all.
2007-05-24 17:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by tori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we can all see u dun give a damn bout your man so if you can just go give it to another because of waiting 6 months then you might as well give it away all the time. really time to grow up and become a woman, dont be a man! do it yourself, were better at it anyways really girl THINK!
2007-05-25 05:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it you'll hate yourself for it. Just try and forget about the no sex thing, go out and have fun with your friends or join a club or something, get a hobby. If all that fails..... www.forafters.co.uk you'll find all you need there.... if you know what I mean!!
2007-05-25 04:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by lizzie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it style of sounds like ur no longer this way of committed females coz if u have been however a lot somebody did tempt u u'd on no account even think of approximately it whilst people love they do exactly pass in for self help, taking over the telephone and speaking to ur fiance and doing it on via cam, those are the opportunities a uncomplicated n unswerving person does coz comittment means a lot and that's ur entire destiny courting which relies upon on it.............as others have pronounced pass get a vibrator and do it urself.....else merely think of if u quite love ur fiance coz if u do u'd no longer even think of however a lot ur deprived of se* and how wud u sense if ur fiance does a similar element wat u r questioning ( or have been questioning of doing) betrayal till now marriage then why marry no element babes.......think of bout ur courting possibly in destiny too ur fiance would pass away on longer words after u marry him wud u cheat on him ????????? Ur the terrific decide to examine ur courting and how u want to handle it in the long-term do no longer screw it up with something very stupid.
2016-12-17 15:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower, unless you're OK with your fiancee doing the same thing with a female friend, where he is...
2007-05-24 19:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is go to a adult toy shop and get a vibrater or something to help you get over yourself it's perfectly normal and you shouldn't be embarrased like most people trust me there is a way to satisfy your sexual needs but that so called close friend is not the way feel free to contact me if you need more detail
2007-05-17 06:25:52 · answer #11 · answered by Brittany B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋