ladies, do you preffer a man to be tall, lean, serious,,and handsome.... or short,, chubby,,,furry,,and funny...
do you like a man that doesnt like ,,kuddleing,, doesnt say he loves you,,,and is a badboy jerk type...
or the cute ,,funny ,, ugly ,,,"adorable type that kuddles after sex and says he loves you,,and does all those cheesey things women like......
2007-05-17
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I would probably prefer the first guy. I hate cuddling, I hate love, and nice guys annoy the crap out of me. Not all women like cheesy things.
Appearance-wise, I would also take the first guy. No explanation is necessary. However, I would hope he did have some semblance of a sense of humour.
2007-05-17 07:27:44
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answered by Rio Madeira 7
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Well, back in my single days, I preferred the "good guys". I know there are some women who don't, but I always have.
Generally I didn't care much about looks (honestly!), but I only dated guys who were bright, pro-choice, and incredibly kind. Anyone who was rude to the waitress on a first date would not be seeing me again, for example.
Although I ended up with someone more tall, serious, and quiet, I have also dated guys who were none of the above and had a great time. Luckily, my husband happens to be very handsome as well, but I would have married him even if he wasn't. He is kind, moral, sweet, incredibly smart, and an all-around fantastic guy.
I think a big part of what an individual woman prefers is what she values in herself. I'm usually referred to as "sweet", and I do make a huge effort to be kind to people, so I suppose that's pretty accurate. It makes sense to me that I'd only want to date other "sweet" people. So I think that no matter what "type" of guy you are, you can find somebody who appreciates your finer qualities.
PS- I'd take Mr. cute, funny, and ugly over the arrogant schmuck ANY day. If you are having trouble getting women to see you as more than a friend, try the book, "how to make anyone fall in love with you" It sounds dumb, but it's kind of the stuff that those "bad boys" already know, and most sweet, non-jerks might not. It helped my friend Ben meet and date Mrs. Right.
2007-05-17 11:23:01
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answered by Junie 6
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Every woman have different tastes. Me personally, I find skinny guys unattractive because they appear weaker. I like heavyset guys because they seem stronger. I also think a sense of humor is critical. How can any relationship work if someone takes things too seriously? The only way to cope with trouble sometimes is to make light of it. My husband is tall, heavyset, very nice, likes to cuddle, and always makes me laugh when I'm sad. To me, that's the ideal man.
2007-05-17 07:40:15
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answered by Graciela, RIRS 6
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I kind of like my guy to be a "surprise package", you know?
There's no Chubby Guy Store or a Lean, Lanky Guy Store. Human beings can be wonderful and not in the most beautiful package, if you know what I mean.
Looks are the least of what makes relationships enjoyable.
Give it some thought,.OK?
Good luck
2007-05-17 10:54:57
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answered by Croa 6
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2016-11-04 06:02:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Niether. I prefer a mix of those qualties
skinny, short or tall(doesn't matter), funny, likes a good cuddle and sweet... but not too cheesy.
I also like men who don't spell c words with ks.
:-)
2007-05-17 09:36:21
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answered by K 5
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The men I dated (before I met my husband) were all tall and drop dead gorgeous. I didn't look for them, they found me and it worked. That included a 10 year marriage to my son's father. Unfortunately, that didn't work out.
Meanwhile, I apparently grew up, and found the absolute love of my life whom I married. He's short, slightly round, and absolutely hilarious! Mentally he is my equal, and I never realized that all those physically "Pierce Brosnan" types simply weren't.
For the record, my husband is the best looking Pacific Island man in the world. :)
2007-05-17 07:15:43
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answered by FieryOutlaw 3
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The problem with your question is that in the real world, men don't fall into distinct categories of ugly nice guy and hot @sshole. Also, most men are secure enough in themselves that they're not terrified of cuddling - unlike you, they don't need to run screaming from anything women supposedly like.
2007-05-17 06:52:24
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answered by Anonymous
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I left a bag of filthy socks around here. Anybody seen 'em?
Find 'em, and I punctuate for you. Will I ever.
2007-05-17 16:06:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I like a man who knows how to punctuate. Gets me off every time.
2007-05-17 07:24:11
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answered by Emmie 3
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