2007-05-17 05:17:28 · 19 answers · asked by stephanie_lauderhill 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'd say no. 15 is awful young to be having sex.
2007-05-17 05:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by gendaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can tell you is that when i was 15 i wish that i listened to all the advice that people gave me when they told me to wait. At 15 you still very young to be doing such a grown up thing.
I had sex for the first time when i was 14 or 15 I was just going into the 9th grade, it wasent special or magical or anything. At the time its what i thought i wanted but now that i look back at it i wish i had waited. Im 19 now about to be 20 and ive been with my boyfriend since the 10th grade, and i wish i had waited for him to be my first. I am so im love and i feel like we have such a bond and connection with him, i can be open and honest and my realtionship now has made me see that waiting for that special bond with someone is so special.
At 15 i thought i new everything, i thought i knew what i wanted but as you get older you learn so much more about life and all the experiences that come along with it. Im my opinion i think you should wait, if you and this guy love each other than in a couple of years you will still love each other. Slow down there is no rush.
Focus on your school, your family, and your future career. what you do today will effect the rest of your life.
Good Luck!
2007-05-17 05:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by greyc143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO. I lost mine when I was 15 and I regreted it. Sex also makes you feel more clingy to that person and they may even get controlling. At 15 I also had my first serious relationship, he was 19, and it was abusive..the first fight we ever had was because I wouldn't have sex with although I had other times. I put up with that for two yrs. I can't change your mind, you will do what you want but PLEASE make him wear protection. Know there's still the risk that condoms are not 100% effective. I suggest have a friend take you to your local health department to get put on birth control. It won't cost you anything. Don't have sex just because your friends are, do it when you feel ready. Keep in mind if it's your first time, no matter how small they are, it will hurt. Good luck on this one and I hope you make the right decision.
2007-05-17 05:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by dingyblonde1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion no i dont think you should have sex. If you are asking others for advice it doesnt sound like your ready. Your emotions can run high at 15. Wait, focus on school, and your family, friends, if it is real love, having sex isnt going to make you more in love, in fact in often complicates things. Again as a parent, and someone who make mistakes early in life, seek the wisdom of those before you, take your time you have your whole life for complicated relationships.
2007-05-17 06:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. For one, i'm sorry to say this, but you are just a child and you don't know what LOVE is yet. Puppy love and lust yes, but not true and real love. Sex is something not to take lightly and not when you are just a child yourself. There is always a chance of getting pregnant. Even when all protection messures are taken. Take it from my sister who knows. She is now 9 weeks pg with her 2nd and they used a condom and she was on birth controll.
I don't want to sound mean here. And sorry if i do.
2007-05-17 05:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you as hard as this is to understand, most older people you ask this question to will say no. The reason is not because we are old it is because we probably did have sex at your age and now we all realize that if we could go back to that time we would not have done it. Its just not worth it. If he loves you, it will not matter to him. So, we are trying to spare you the regret. No, do not do it, you are going to wish it was different in the future if you do.
2007-05-17 05:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
u have to really think about this.. if it is love he wont go no where. but if u have sex and get pregnant then u 2 break up u will be stuck with him in ur life forever.. the only safe sex is no sex. u are still young no need to start growing up yet
2007-05-17 05:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 15 is too young. Can you handle having a baby? Can you handle getting an STD? If can't say that you could financially and emotionally handle both of those scenarios (by YOURSELF, without your parents or the gov't), then you are too young for sex.
2007-05-17 05:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think that you are ready. But after you do it, you will feel really bad inside, and than it is to late!!!!! You have a long life ahead of you, don't give yourself such a big burden to carry for the rest of your life. Love will wait for years, lust will not. That is a good way to know!
2007-05-17 07:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lori L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, at your age you have no idea what true love is, your feelings are being run by your hormones.
If you do have sex, which is probably against the law, at your age, the worst case scenario is you get pregnant, he leaves you for somebody else, you get stuck with a kid, and your life over before its begun.
2007-05-17 05:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by conranger1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋