this is the 4th time this has happened ,should i kick her to the curb,ive done all i can to help and suppport her but misscarrige are the womans fault and it looks like i will never bear a living child with this woman.
2007-05-17 04:55:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If she is taking care of herself and not doing anything that would cause harm to produce a miscarriage then it is hardly her fault. There are other options to having children but you don't seem to want to go that route since you are thinking about "kicking her to the curb". If you think this is hard on you, imagine what she is going through. I think if anyone should be kicking someone to the curb, it should be her kicking you. Please don't breed, thanks!
2007-05-17 05:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by d_magical_s_sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may not be the most deep and intelligent male out there, I'm hoping that this is was just a joke question to get people angry. If not I will give a possible reason, but you seriously need to change your attitude and it is in no way her fault. While its not a bad thing you can't manage to procreate I feel sorry for the emotional pain your wife would have gone through.
Miscarriage can be caused by incompatible blood types its called Rh disease, its what happens if the mother is Rh negative and the father is Rh positive, what can happen is if the baby inherits the Rh positive blood type the mothers body will see the blood in the foetus as being a foreign body and the immune system attacks it.
Normally the first baby makes it through and the subsequent ones will get attacked. Note that this doesn't happen if the father is Rh negative and the mother is Rh positive. There are drugs that can prevent it from happening.
You can read about it here
http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/4439_1220.asp
2007-05-17 05:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you know how to ask a question on yahoo, but you certainly don't seem to know how to do a yahoo search to find out that you are illogical and irrational when you state a miscarriage is the woman's fault. As people say..you are donating the Y chromosome which she isn't donating. Also, you may be giving an X. The last time I did the math on that one...that means, 50% of the kid is yours and your genes. So maybe it is your fault and not hers. Or maybe you both have issues that just won't allow conception. Or maybe she does have something. The only way you will get your answer is you go to a fertilization specialist who can run the appropriate tests.
By the way maybe you should go to your local college and take a course on women's lib and stop being so sexist.
2007-05-17 05:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm . . . she's actually tried 4 TIMES and you are putting her down!!! You are married and should be supportive. I am married to a great man who is a wonderful father to my 3 children. We have tried 4 times and all have ended in miscarriage. He has no children of his own. He loves me every single day and doesn't blame me at all. And no, miscarriage is not a woman's fault. Your sperm helped make that baby that didn't survive. I would suggest seeing specialists, trying in-vitro, adopting. But if I could talk to your wife I'd tell her to leave your sorry *ss for a better man because you are an insensitive jerk!!! Maybe you shouldn't have children.
2007-05-17 05:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriages are NOT the woman's fault. Nor are they the man's fault. You cannot place blame either parent for spontanous abortions.
There are many reasons for spontanous abortions; the sperm may be malformed, the egg may be too old, the uterus may be too acidic, to name a few. Depending on the length of the pregnancy, whether first, second, or third trimester, the fetus may have genetic malformations, the uterus does not expand, the amino fluid is too low...
The man deposits more than just his sperm: HIS genetic code is half of that baby.
2007-05-17 05:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by T S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I start of by saying........YOU"RE A JERK! Not only is a miscarriage no one's fault, but at a time when she needs your comfort and support, you act like this. Maybe the miscarriages are your fault?? Perhaps God wants your jerk butt to leave her so she can find someone who will treat her better to have children with.... Did you ever think of that??? And physically speaking it is not always the woman's fault.... A miscarriage is a woman's body's way of aborting a defective or complicated pregnancy sometimes..... So maybe there's just something wrong with the sperm donor....YOU PS my mom had many miscarriages before she AND my father adopted me...
2007-05-17 05:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bright Future 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Did you really just go there???? Miscarriages are NOT a "womans" fault!! It could be something you are doing too!! Maybe your sperm isnt viable enough??? Maybe your sperm is deformed??? A womans body expels things that arent viable.. and sometimes if something is wrong with the growing baby the body will expel it if its deformed or not forming properly.. dont blame that crap on your wife, it could just as easily be you!!
2007-05-17 05:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriages are NOT the woman's fault in a way that she can help,. You do not sound supportive at all, and I pity your wife. If all you want is a child of your own, not a loving relationship with your wife, please do her a favor and leave her, soon.
2007-05-17 04:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
miscarrying a child is NOT your wife's fault. There are thousands of reasons a miscarriage can occur. You should be more supportive of her, and if you can't find it in yourself to do that, then you should tell her everyday that she deserves better than you can give her and that you wouldn't blame her for leaving you.
2007-05-17 04:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by kra_z_nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you do drugs or alcohol? youre an ***. My wife misscarried twice, and full term, It wasn't her fault,It could have been mine we don't really know for sure. anyways Its time for a histerectamy. you don't know how hard it is on a woman. It could have been you causing her stress. why don't you take a serious look into adoption? Another misscarriage could kill your wife, not only in mind but in body.
2007-05-17 05:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋