CAN SOMEBODY HELP Me????

Question

IM NOW 9 MTHS PREGNANT AND I WAS DUE ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO. WHEN I WAKE UP I WOULD HAVE TO THROW UP(THIS JUST STARTED A COUPLE WEEKS AGO),AND AT THE BOTTOM PART OF MY STOMACH EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE I WOULD FEEL THIS SHARP PAIN LIKE SOMEBODY JUST CUT OR PUNCH ME IN MY STOMACH. AND MY BOYFRIEND WANT ME TO HURRY UP AND HAVE THE BABY SO HE DOES ALL TYPES OF CRAZY THINGS TO ME. LIKE WHEN I TELL HIM THAT MY STOMACH HURTS HE WOULD START TO RUB MY SOMACH THEN HE WOULD START TO GET RUFF AND START SMACKING ME IN MY STOMAH OR HE WOULD JUST PUSH DOWN ON MY STOMACH REAL HARD, AND WHEN HE GET MAD ABOUT ME COMPLAINING HE WOULD TRY TO FIGHT ME OR HE WOULD LEAVE ME IN THE HOUSE AND SAY I HOPE YA WATER BREAK WHILE IM NOT HERE OR I SHOULD KICK YOU IN YA FU**ING STOMACH. CAN SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO TO MAKE MY WATER BREAK SO I CAN GET THIS BABY OUT OF ME..I JUST FEEL LIKE I WANNA START PUSHING AND SEE IF IT WOULD HELP

I THINK HE IS DOING THIS BECUASE ITS NOT HIS BABY WE GOT TOGETHER AFTER I WAS PREGNANT, AND TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD TREAT THIS BABY LIKE IT WAS HIS, BUT AFTER WE WERE TOGETHER HE STARTED TO TAKE CONTROL OF ME HE STOPPED ME FROM GOING TO SCHOOL WHEN I WOULD WANT TO LEAVE OUT THE HOUSE HE WOULD SMACK ME. I DID TRY TO LEAVE HIM BEFORE

Answer 1

ok this guy needs his head checked is he for real?????? omg i would go to your docs office asap tell them what he has done so they can check on the baby for one and give you some advice of why having a baby around him is not the brightest idea they will prolly induce you but i dont care when that baby comes he is not the best person to have around it babies cry for what they need and he sounds very impatient and irrational and ever hear of shaken baby syndrome why can i see that he would def. be the type to do this to your helpless baby i would def. seek some professional help to make you aware of the things he does to you are not right and by you putting up with it is going to endanger your poor little baby PLEASE talk to someone about this and dont take matters into your own hands on going into labor thats what the doctors are for you baby feels everything and labor alone puts stress on him/her imagine what you guys are doing please go to the doctor today!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Are you sure you want this man in your and your baby's life?
When the baby will come out it will be way harder, and if your partner is hitting you now. He could do a lot worse to a crying baby.
There is not a lot that you can do to make the baby come out faster other than ask your doctor to induce you, but as there is not medical reason for it, the best thing for YOUR BABY is to come out on its own time.
You are to become a mother you should thing of what will be the safest thing for your baby's health and yours.
Please call National Domestic Violence Hotline [phone]-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 and they could help you do the right thing

Answer 3

First of all, the way your boyfriend is treating you, is not OK. It is abuse, and u shouldn't put up with it. Secondly if you are over a week over your due date, you should be talking to your doctor about being induced. If you are 41 wks, the recommendation is that you should have the baby. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Your boyfriend is borderline abusing you!!! If your bf treats you this way what will he do to the baby when it is crying and he wants it to do something else!! No pushing will not help. Are you seeing the doctor? Ask them. Also it will happen naturally, but for now I think you need to worry about the horrible treatment your bf is giving you and get out of that situation ASAP!

Answer 5

woaaaaaah woman!!!!! CALM DOWN!!! this is YOUR baby your talking about hun!! just repeat to urself! your baby. first things first your bf - he has no ryt to do that to you - you can really hurt the baby doing all those things, i mean one way of helping iv heard is to have sex...look it up :) if the pain is that bad consut your doctor. your bf should be much more supportive than he is i mean come on 'I HOPE YA WATER BREAK WHILE IM NOT HERE OR I SHOULD KICK YOU IN YA FU**ING STOMACH' he should be beaten up for that! This is his baby too you know, both your baby, just because ur a couple of weeks late doesnt mean that you both have to get depressed and so outa control...

Go to our doctor and im serios - you have to speak to him about this, no way to treat you, i mean pushing down of you stomach....let the baby come when its ready, if your that desprit consult your doctor and get some leaflets about pregnancy. I think your bf need to get a reality check too because he can harm his little girl/boy...remind him of that. you shouldnt feel so down on urself coz of him because at the end of the day its your baby and you can harm it if you dnt be careful x

Answer 6

You need to worry about the way your boyfriend is acting. You need to get help and get away from him. Do you want your child raised in a home where his or her daddy beats up mommy? Or possibly beats the child as well? This type of behavior escalates. I feel sorry for you and your child. Don't rush the baby, He'll get here when he's ready!! It seems to me like you and your boyfriend aren't quit ready for parenthood!

Answer 7

Are you serious??? You couldnt be serious if your asking for help on yahoo answers. How could you even be near a guy, that talks to you that way when your holding his baby. You should know better that he is putting you AND YOUR BABY in danger. If you CARED about yourself or your baby, you wouldnt even be asking this stupid question! You should know the ANSWER! HELO?!!! Im not trying to be mean, but COMEON! HELO!!!

*26 weeks preggo!

Answer 8

It sounds like your first priority is to get rid of the "man" you are with. If he is that rough with you now how do you think he will deal with the stress of having a crying baby around? You need to sit back and think about you and your baby first and foremost. I wish you all the luck in the world.

Answer 9

Don't you havea ob?? Your boyfriend sounds abusive and I fear for your screaming baby when it arrives. Two weeks over due?? They normally induce you because of the risk of infection... Tell you bf to smack his self... He sounds like an idiot! Call your doctor!!! You can't make yourself go into labor.... Are you young?? Sounds like it.. I am not a rude person but your story makes me sick. I pity the baby...

Answer 10

no need to worry it will come when the time is right either two weeks before ot two weeks after the due date in the meantime be prepared to save your strength for pushing that baby out good luck.