what do you think or how would it make you feel if your boyfriend was discussing the problems that goes on in your relationship with him to an ex of his?
2007-05-17 03:20:16 · 39 answers · asked by rlynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are certain things that shouldn't be shared with an ex, if they are still friends that is one thing, but I would feel uncomfortable about him discussing them with an ex, I would much rather him be honest with me or talk with a current friend, not someone of the opposite sex that he used to date!
2007-05-17 03:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why an ex is an ex. Its okay to speak in passing but, to discuss problems or issue concerning the current relationship is a no-no. Doing so may cause a person to attempt to rekindle that ex relationship.
2007-05-17 03:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if that would be alright for you to do too with your x boyfriend.
Look this to me is something very important about being with someone and I'm talking about both people.
If a person cares about you and there doing something that's bothering you or making you upset or confused. If you tell the person about how you feel, because for some God for saken reason they may not know you feel that way. They should not want to continue that behavior, why, simple, they are hurting you by doing it. If they continue the behavior after you've discussed it then I guess you have to make a decision about the person. Are they worth this or do I leave because I deserve to be treated better than this. Plus, kinda lets you know doesn't it how they really feel about you. Think about it.
2007-05-17 03:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by MLJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be livid if my bf was discussing ANYTHING with his ex!! It's dangerous territory. A simple discussion can spark old feelings and then you might be left out in the cold.
I would put my foot down about him talking with her - not acceptable behavior! Don't be afraid to discuss this with your bf. Let him know how it makes you feel. You could be feeling a lot of different things like insecurity, jealousy, angry, and/or shame. Don't let this go by without a serious discussion. Good Luck.
2007-05-17 03:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the perspective of the current person in the relationship, the answer is a resounding NO. If you are the other person in the relationship having the trouble, I can see where you might want to rationalize it to being a "yes." If you are the ex, you are thinking "hell yeah" because it gives you a way to wiggle back in the door if that's what you choose. So, still, it's a NO.
2007-05-17 03:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rvn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for trouble. That's a terrible idea. If I had a boyfriend who confided in his ex I would be horrified and angry. Maybe you should consider talking to your girlfriend about the problems the two of you are having, after all she's the only other person who's opinion matters with regards to your relationship.
2007-05-17 03:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Greer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disrespectful. Shows disrespect for you when current bf is sharing private issues with ex gf about you. It sounds like he has left the "door open" to the ex, just in case his relationship with you doesn't go according to his liking.
If he's that bonded with his ex, then he needs to get back with his ex. He's not ready for you or any other new relationship. ***And his ex should be discouraging him from doing this, too. Which shows her lack in judgement & character, too.
Ditch them both!
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2007-05-17 04:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS A BIG IF
what i mean is depends what relation is the ex i mean if they are friends and nothing More than that fine but if the ex is even tiny miny jealous their are possibilties that ex might miss lead and it can even destroy your relationship the best way to post things is to discuss with those who are related to it i mean if it is related to you even a prob or disliking tell him to come to you and will post it out peace fully after all you are nature enough to handle matters.make sure to use nature word boys have strong ego barriers which won't allow the nature word pass by easily
may the best for relationship work out
2007-05-17 03:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by JASZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so he did misinform you. that's provoking. You reported they're acquaintances, yet how typically do they spend time mutually? Do they spend time mutually on my own? Does he no longer want to communicate about what they did mutually in case you ask? If the answer is certain to the perfect question, then i might want to absolutely re-study the relationship. yet when he would not spend dissimilar time with her (on the phone or in individual) then i'm confident he loves you. I comprehend that it truly is demanding for you, even though it truly is conceivable to be acquaintances with an ex. Now no matter if you must settle for that fellowship is as a lot as you. sturdy success!
2016-11-04 05:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT ok! First of all that would make me really upset not only that he is discussing our problems but if we were having problems then it might be because he is talking with he ex! I would never do that to him. It gives your ex a mix message. Completely disrespectful to your spouse!
2007-05-17 04:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by iparker421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋