wht all things person can or should do in case he is left with no family,no money,no degree, he is 25?

Question

i am talking abt myself. i am afraid i will loose my family, i am final year medical student but i cannot get degree because the city in which i did my medical studies, i got into big big trouble.i am afraid i have to leave everythig like my family, degree , money
wht should or wht things can i still do

Answer 1

Finish your medical degree, If it's possible or do you mean you have to leave the area right now.? Use the knowledge/credits you already have to build towards a different path. All is not lost, there is hope. Do you need to contact legal services to help you?. If you really screwed up, you need to be humble with your family and ask for their compassion and love. I know that however stern your parents may be, they love you very much, and you all may need to change your dream to something different. Any knowledge you gained thus far in school still belongs to you and can be useul in your life. Many great people have been through similiar troubles, and they can be overcome. You must do whatever neccessary to amend whatever you have done wrong. YOU are not bad ,it's what you've done that is bad. And you may have to seriously be humble and work overtime to prove that you can be trustworthy and reliable. What kind of big big trouble? Check out ways to get legal advice and also emotional type counseling. Maybe the big trouble is not really so bad, but you MUST talk to someone you trust, don't deal with this alone. Good Luck! I know you have a successful future ahead of you. YOU CANNOT RUN AWAY FROM TROUBLE ONCE YOU ARE IN IT. YOU MUST FACE IT AND OVERCOME IT.

Answer 2

Starting over again, whether it be because of a divorce, or death of a spouse, or the loss of a job after many long years, can be a difficult thing to do. Starting again can cause hardship, anxiety, separation or depression... We all, at one time or another, have had to pick ourselves up and start all over again, even if you only had an injury that caused you to change sports. Once you realize that it is a part of life, you can go begin to move forward.
Steps
Accept the fact that changes have to be made in your life. Once you accept this, you can move forward.
Recognize what caused the changes. If it is a marital problem, where did the problem start? Could it have been avoided, or can you recognize it and make changes so that it does not happen again.
Read self-help books. Learn about relationships and find information that applies to your situation.
Admit that you have lost your job, and sit down and think about what other type of work you may be eligible for or been trained in. If you cannot find a job, then learn a trade. Take a night course, an aptitude test, or think about what you always wanted to do, but never had the chance. Change can be inspirational!
Teach a sport, or become a coach if a sports injury keeps you from participating.
Think about a spouse who dies, but do not remember them as having been the 'best', or the 'greatest' person in your life, unless he or she actually was. Too often, the remaining spouse forgets the faults of the one who died and tends to create a saint when in actuality the other person was a 'pain' at times. Remember the good, but also recall the not so good, so that you can go on with your life.
Meet others. Attend socials. Do not feel guilt if you ask another to dance. Get on with your life and be happy again.
Divorce can be difficult and can fill you with guilt or you blame the other. Attend help groups, read books, talk to others, but do not carry the pain or the question of whose fault it is within you forever. If you feel you can reconcile, then go for it! But think first, would the second time around be better than the first?



Tips
Never say, "I should have done things differently," or "if only I had taken them to the Doctor sooner". Blame can be like poison in the body. Accept what has happened and go on with your life because you really cannot change a thing.
Finding a new job, or a new sport can be the start of a new life. You may find that it will be the best thing that has happened to you, something you have always wanted to do, but never had the nerve to change.

Answer 3

What did you do?? What ever it was, it sounds to me like you need to stop freaking out about it, break it down, and deal with one thing at a time. Learn from your mistake, and keep going. It will make you stronger. You need to break it down. Face your mistake as a mistake and correct what ever you are able too. Take the punishment. Accept the fact that this is not a situation that you will be able to "hide" from. You might be scared emotionally for the rest of your life, but do not let this mistake define who or what you are. So what. You are not alone in the world. There are a lot of people who flip burgers to pay the rent. Not all of us are doctors. Not everyone has a family, and not everyone has "money" just laying around. What ever you did, deal with all the misery, and when the bulk of it is over with, you will still be there to pick up the pieces and get on with the rest of your life. Good luck to you...

Answer 4

1. On a personal and spiritual sense- Are you afraid of losing your family because of the trouble you are in? If so you need to apologize and ask their forgiveness. You might try talking to a minister so you can work through your spiritual issues. He could help you to forgive yourself and turn your life around. You need to learn from your mistakes and move on. Don't continue to make the same ones. Don't wallow in it. When your family sees the changes you've made they'll be able to trust you again.

2. In the physical sense - If you're in America you may try to join the military. Go speak to a recruiter. Tell him the mistakes you made and that you need help getting back on your feet. Be honest they will check your criminal background. The military can help you financially with completing your degree. You'll be an officer which means more pay, you'll have base housing so you wont have to worry about a place to live and you'll have an income. The service will help keep you accountable and motivated. You wont make a lot of money in the service but you'll get back on your feet and be serving your country while gaining valuable experience. Then if you decide to get out of the military you usually get an opt out bonus which you can use for whatever purpose. Perhaps starting up your own private practice. You'll also be able to apply for VA loans and if you eventually have children they'll be eligible for VA college loans.

Whatever you do don't give up. You are still very young and have a lot to offer. You've learned a valuable lesson through your mistakes and can use this to your adantage. When you have children teach it to them so they wont make the same mistakes.

Answer 5

The first thing you need to do is get a hold of yourself and the situations. Sounds like you made your own bed. I would get yourself a job first and get some financial stability first, then I would set up a mtg. with your dean or college council and discuss your options. Your family will be there for you as long as they know you are trying and are sorry for what you did.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

What state do you live-in? I work in a Medical Staff Office at a hospital, so if you email I can tell you what you can and cant not do

Answer 8

That sucks. Get another loan, choose another major. You messed up big this late in life, so you'll probably mess up again. Good luck to you!

Answer 9

try to fix things go talk to a lawyer ....dont runaway from problems like a friend told me once face them! after u fix things dont get into trouble if it seems like a bad idea hey it is...

Answer 10

Look at objectively and see if the process can be reversed.