2007-05-17 02:58:08 · 36 answers · asked by milu 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Its not very surprising to me as I have had frens who said the same thing ..they never got pregnant though . If one is not prepared for it better not to have the child ...but am sure most women change once they see the lil one in front of them ...
but if one is adamant better to abort the baby ....why shud a life come to this world where he/she is not welcome!!!
2007-05-17 03:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by PP1234 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having a baby is the most wonderfull overwhelming thing that anyone can experience. When I got pregnant for the first time I wasn´t sure how it would be like having a baby certainly I did´t feel identified with babies, when I visited the doctor for the fist time and saw a tiny circle jumping the doctor told me that it was the heart beat, i felt I wanted to cry or yell or I didn´t know what to do if I was happy or sad, and having my daughter was an amazing experience when I first saw her I cant explain it´s a deep feeling inside our heart. I knew I wasn´t identified with other´s babies but I loved my own
Then later around I got pregnat again, it wasn´t comfortable the idea of raising two babies instead of one , unfortunately I lost my baby when I had a 12 week pregnancy.
Now its been 8 week since my third baby was born you can´t imagine what it feels holding her when she was just born, feeling the smell of life because she had never eaten something before, then you realize that you are not the owner of your babies God gives you the chance of being a mother ( maybe you don´t believe in God, but I´m sure he has a purpose on each baby ) When I lost my second pregnancy I knew that maybe I took everything for granted, and I learned that God dint want me to expect a baby with so much pain inside, so he took it away, and then learn to be patient and loving and heal my self before having another baby. Give yourself the chance of become a mom it really pays off.
2007-05-17 05:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by MAKUACR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should watch or look at a sonogram. Even if the baby is only 10 wks or so along.. hear the heartbeat. At 6 weeks I was able to see my sons heartbeat. At 16 weeks we found out the sex and he started moving. I wasn't exactly thrilled when I found out I was expecting.. Everyone besides the father of my son gave me a really hard time. But 3 weeks from my due date- my son has his own schedule and his own personality. Murder is wrong. There are so many people out there who CANT have babies and would love one. Pregnancy is no walk in the park- but having the life of an innocent child on your conscience is FAR worse than 9 months of discomfort in your entire life.
Regardless of whether or not the person "likes" babies.. she's not wanting to abort HER body, she's aborting someone else's. A completely innocent someone else.
2007-05-17 04:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that other people's babies are so much different than her own. There is a supernatural love that any woman has for her own child. If she's planning on having an abortion, then tell her to go through the pregnancy and give birth, and if she instantly doesn't fall in love, then she should give him or her up for adoption.
2007-05-17 03:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Robyn H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a baby and don't like babies and feel you can live with a decision to abort, then you should have one. A baby that is not wanted and resented is more likely to be neglected or abused.
You may also consider the option of adoption.
2007-05-17 04:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell that dumb *** to have the baby and give it up for adoption, or leave the baby at the hospital, which is a legal way for a parent to "give up" a child. Then I would tell her get any body part inside of her body that has to do with conception/fertilization ripped out so there is no threat of her being a murderer. That is, other than keeping her fast legs closed!
2007-05-17 03:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by funkyfree4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give the baby up for adoption. abortion is wrong and is killing an innocent life...you could give that baby to somebody that isn't able to have any children and there are millions of people who would love to adopt a baby. after this is all figured out, definately look into getting your tubes tied or partner to receive a vasectomy, or be on some form of birth control to prevent this from happening again.
2007-05-17 03:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She doesnt have to keep the baby, she can give it up for adoption. There are plenty of women out there who LOVE babies and cant have them due to physical issues. Take one for the team and help out an infertile coupls.
Otherwise, take some birth control! If she doesnt like babies, the she shouldnt try to make them. I wouldnt make a pizza with anchovies because I dont like them. Avoid the decision/choice
2007-05-17 03:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by glazeddonut27 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's horrible, how do you not like babies? If she didn't want to be pregnant why was she having sex? I know I will get slammed for saying it but this is a horrid woman and will be a horrid mother. Abort the baby, the child will not be cared for in utero or after if this woman is this selfish. Better to free the sould for another attempt than to trap it in such a horrible life.
2007-05-17 03:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Momofthreeboys 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may think you don't like babies but are you sure about that? Have you ever had a baby of your own? I didn't care for babies either but when I met my own daughter after she was born, I liked her so much that I went on to have 4 more kids.
I would say that if you are already pregnant, you should have the baby. You may find that you like your own baby just fine. And if not, there are all kinds of people who can't have babies of their own who are praying and hoping to adopt.
2007-05-17 03:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Uh....she should have been on a reliable method of birth control in the first place.
Secondly, if she didn't----she should have kept her clothes on and her legs closed.
Thirdly, if she's past the point of an abortion----she needs to place the child for adoption.
2007-05-17 03:02:30 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋