Is He Using Me??

Question

My boyfriend and I got back together a couple of days ago and I think he's using me. The reason for thinking this is he's always telling his friends to call me and tell me come over. When we're together he acts like he's so in love but after that, it's done. He doesn't call me like he used to, he hangs out with his friends 24/7, and tells me he loves me but doesn't seem the same. Is it true??

Answer 1

i think you should tell your bf how you feel.when 2 people are inlove they should be able to talk to each other.in a relationship do not have negetive thoughts,why can you think that your bf is using you?if u always think that he will do it.dont think bad about your bf

Answer 2

I hate to say this but it sounds like you are convenient to him right now. Don't forget that you teach people how to treat you so if you allow him to continue acting this way he will think he can get away with it all the time. Talk to him about this now and tell him what you need from him out of the relationship. If he's not willing to give up his friends to spend time with you, then he's definitely not worth it. Actions speak louder than words.

Answer 3

Well, it does seem like it, he should hang out with u and talk to u more if he loves u. im sorry on whats going on i know this feeling hope u get through this. ask him some questions if he still loves u or is he just using u, tell him to tell u the truth

Answer 4

Hmmm....I would make myself unavailable to him a little more. Do not be mean or unpleasant...just act as though you have things to do as well and they are important to you. If he sees that he is not the center most attention of your life, he will fight harder to make that so...that is...if he truly is interested and is not in fact using you. Either way, you will be the winner in the long run. I've said it before and I'll say it again...."Don't make someone a priority in your life when they've only made you an option in theirs." Be supportive when you are together but aloof when you are not. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Usually when we love someone we make excuses and fail to see what is in front of us. But other times we become over emotional and unobjective. If someone else had asked you this question, what would your answer be. Think about it careful and you would figure it out. But when in doubt always ask. Sit him down and tell him this is how you feel. Tell him what you expect from him and ask if that is too much to expect. His answers and reaction would give you the answers you need.

Answer 6

well, thatz sounds kind of just like the relationship i was just in i hate when guys put on a attitude like they really love us and they don't know how to love us. This dude i was recently talking to he was cool until he just hangs out with his friends more then me we live kinda far apart he never comes to see me he always uses a excuse like i don't have a car what do u want me to do so im like whatever. and he told me to go do whatever makes me feel better. so what i will say to u is just talk to him about it if it keeps happening leave him he is playing games!!

Answer 7

Yes he is, he's using you if he loves you he should spend more time with you instead of his friends call you like he use to, to try and bring back your relationship. Why the hell does he tell his friends to call you he dont know how to use a phone...lol!!!!

Answer 8

yaar cumon u r wise enuf 2 c what he is up 2
hanging wit his frnds is not bad, but calling you thru his
frnds is a thing not zst fine if he luvs u let he call u
7 express his feelings 4 u

Answer 9

Actions speak louder then words. Love is shown not just spoken because then, it is just words. Go with your gut. Good luck

Answer 10

sorry to say this darling but i kinda think he is using you!When I guys says he loves you after a couple of days i think that is a joke!A guys never means it!