this woman is about 49 yrs old and my husband is 28. but this woman has a higher position in this company and ofcourse she has a high salary too.
2007-05-17 01:48:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No he does'nt love her, for right now she giving him something that you could'nt. When the affair runs it course he'll feel like ****.
2007-05-17 01:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat do not know the true meaning of love.
Your husband told you he loved you. Now, he is doing the same thing to the co-worker.
He is a liar , a thief for stealing your love and giving it to another and a cheat.
He will continue to lie , cheat and do anything to get ahead in life it does not matter who he hurts along the way. He is a self centered person who only cares about himself.
It takes two to have an affair.
Don't waste your time it is hard when you love someone, but move on because this man is only going to give you more heartache. Remember once a cheater always a cheater. You will never trust him again. You deserve a lot better than a liar, a thief and a cheat in your life . So think about it your haver really not lost a nice person after all. Good Luck and show him the door.
2007-05-17 01:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st question to be asked is : Does your husband love you?
The obvious answer is NO. Your husband risks your marriage and relationship by having an affair. Keep in mind that affairs outside marriage are decisions made by two people. Your husband is as guilty as the other woman and should be condemned for this act.
The 2nd question to be asked is: Do you love your husband?
The obvious answer is YES. Because you are asking the wrong question and somehow blinded by the unfaithfulness of your husdband.
You are being convinced that the other woman's position and salary are the main issue. It's NOT.
You have to realize that your husband is cheating and unless he sincerely owns up to this and shows remorse, your marraige will fail.
I strongly suggest that you both see a marriage counsellor to save your marriage.
2007-05-17 02:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's not love. Does it really matter though? The fact that he's cheating on you means he certainly doesn't have your best interest at heart. Try to get at the bottom of what's going on with your marriage. It may be time for you to move on. That's more important than figuring out if your husband loves his co-worker.
2007-05-17 01:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a little confused as to why your husband is able to have an affiar with her!
Does he know you know?? I doubt he loves her, I cant speak from ewxperince but i think that most affairs are something that people do to have a bit of fun albeit i dont believe its true but it is kinda kinky! I think that affairs are made to look so great now so everyone wants to try it. Too much tv etc!
2007-05-17 01:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by anicled18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's love got to do with it ?
If he is unfaithful , that is all that counts to make some alternate decisions .
She enjoys having a toy boy around and when it blows over, and it will , you are left with the baggage he created . If you plan to forgive and forget I would just wait it out and pick up the pieces . If you figure he will do it again at some other time , well , then take stock and move on . Throw his sorry butt out and regain your composure .
2007-05-17 01:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using her plain and simple. He sees her money and her position and wants to ride her skirt to a higher position in the company. I would not stay married to a man like that for any reason. He can't love her. If you are still unsure, just ask him what his feeligs are for her. Personally, I wouldn't ask. I would just leave and let him have his old bat.
2007-05-17 01:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he doesn't love YOU, that's for sure.
He may call her his Mentor - but both of them are headed for disaster when the affair is exposed and the "fit hits the shan." They will both probably be fired.
That said, I hope you have a good enough job to support you and this bum.
Or better yet, leave this bum and support yourself. He's bad news.
As for his girlfriend, who cares about her. In fact, cite the affair - naming names etc. as grounds for the divorce.
But leave this bum. He has no respect for you - and he certainly doesn't love you.
2007-05-17 01:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he loves her, maybe you should ask him...For some reason I get the feeling you are not in the least worried about your husband cheating...I could be wrong, but most people (women) who thinks or knows their mate is cheating wants to find out how they could get even, get him back, or divorce him...You just seem a little to calm for me...Again, if I'm wrong let me know
2007-05-17 01:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters whether he loves her or not. If he is cheating he is cheating. You need to move on with your life and find someone who will be faithful to only you. He said his vows to you and then broke them. And if he is still seeing her I don't think there is much hope for your relationship. Do something for you and get a good attorney. You don't deserve to live your life wondering why he is always cheating, you deserve to feel like he worships the ground you walk on.
2007-05-17 01:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves nobody but himself, honey. You must work to change yourself to be someone who will NOT be attracted to losers...that is a lifelong goal. Don't even waste your time trying to figure him out. ONce you figure yourself out, then make the decision of whether you want to stay with this man. But first, of course, dies he show remorse? Does he know you know? I know this wasnt your question, but figure oiut if he plans to stay with this woman cuz it sounds like you need to leave him. Remember: never make a scene, just sign those divorce papers and walk away gracefully.
2007-05-17 01:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by TarasBoutiqueAtEtsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋