I'm sad to see gay hater's bashing in this YA and also in a street where some people say bad things. Why can they say that horrible things to others? Racist people too. I didn't do anything bad and just am living my life. I know they can't hug me but why can't they just ignore me? Do they really want me to be sad? Do they really want others to be sad? Why don't they just ignore me? Why hate?
2007-05-17 01:29:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didn't say I want everyone to like me. They don't have to hug but they just can ignore me.
2007-05-17 02:24:34 · update #1
They can't make gay people sad... unless you allow them to... The best thing to do is laugh at wahtever they are saying... Don't let them get what they want!
2007-05-23 21:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that they really want to. It's just that they don't understand the choice you've made and don't know how to deal with it. Many straight guys are afraid of gay men because they think it's unmanly to get in-touch with their feminine side. They haven't been able to resolve the conflicting emotions they have, and when confronted by this can only act out of fear and ignorance. It's basically the same with racist people. Racist people and ****-phobics have a lot in common. They don't realize you can love others without being in sin.
There are four basic types of love, and until they learn the difference between them they can't understand one another.
2007-05-18 22:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by wernerslave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to turn a blind eye to people who enjoy picking on others. Dont let these things get you down. For some strange reason with the total anominty of the internet it can bring out the worst in some people. And some people are just prone to being hateful.
2007-05-22 10:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by angelicganymede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people think they're moral and that they're protecting moral values. Others are simply sadistic and use the fact that a person is different as an excuse for make the person suffer.
Another thing is that humans tend to be curious especially when they see something different.
If you can't force people to accept your difference, ignore them. I know that it's not easy but with time you become stronger and stronger and develop the ability to ignore.
Be strong, I'm here, we're all here for you. Be strong, feel FREE to express yourself. Don't let anything, abase and humiliate you. But first, you have to accept yourself. :-)
2007-05-17 09:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Narrow minded people often provide narrow minded behavior. I have found that the majority of people who make rude and uncalled comments do so out of ignorance to the situation. They don't understand or are afraid of anything different they encounter. Let the comments pass you by and know that in your heart you are the bigger and better person for having knowledge.
2007-05-23 21:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tom R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them make you sad. It kind of gets them the thrill they seek. They will never win if you don't feel sad because of them. You should feel only sad FOR them, because they never know how to love another human being.
2007-05-17 08:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because they are afraid of what they don't understand. Or rather, what they don't want to understand or accept. People are full of hate and love is something we find so seldom, it seems.
When people hate, love them anyway. At least you know that you aren't like them. Stay beautiful.
Love,
Blue
2007-05-21 19:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are people who are not happy within themselves. There only chance at feeling superior is to tread on someone else.
2007-05-17 08:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
because they cant accept something they dont understand or something that is different,or they were brought up by narrowminded parents that didnt teach them that something different can be a gift or blessing. these people are so shallow,i bet they wouldnt like it if someone shouted out nasty things to them, be proud of who you are, thats my motto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-22 08:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by stormchaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're sad inside.
2007-05-17 08:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by PT's Swan Lake 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋