girls are always dependent on others first father then husband. they dont have their own sense of independence

Answer 1

Really? Interesting, My father is bipolar and was never there for me as a child, teen, young adult... so I never depended on him.... as an adult with three children... I am divorced from a man who up and walked out one day never to return or have a relationship with his children....

So if I'm not independant and take care of mine..... Who the FLIP is?

Answer 2

No offense but are you telling us your opinion or your asking a question? But to answer that remarks, I don't think all girls do depend on their husband, but a father yes after all a father raise us from the day we were born. And for a woman that depend on her husband, there's only a few, I'm not, I have my own mind and power to do what's best for me and for my kids.

Answer 3

Thats a very general statement and not really fair i think.

You have to remember that there are an equal amount of girls who are very independent and rely on no one.

The funny thing is that men complain about this alot, saying the woman is trying to take the place of a man and that they feel they dont have a purpose in a womans life as she is doing everything anyway.

There are many ways to look the situation.

Men can be very confusing, one minute they want a homely kinda girl who they can look after etc and the next minute they want someone who can take care of themselves.

They need to make up their minds i think!!

Answer 4

Well Men are dependent first on their mother and then their wives.

Nobody is an island.

Saying that I am not dependant on my husband, I am the sole income of the house, I pay all the bills and I also do all the cooking and cleaning, so try and tell me I have sense of independence.

Answer 5

Really?? How do you know. I am not close to my dad in any shape, never could imagine being dependent on him and because I had a crappy dad, I take it out on my spouse at times and I know my spouse wishes I were more dependent on him. I am stubborn and independent so I guess you are wrong aren't you. Not ALL girls are ALWAYS dependent. What an asinine question!

Answer 6

Really that's very interesting since my father raised me from day one and taught me to never depend on anyone but myself. I raised my daughter and graduated with honors from a great university on my own. I have a great career and needles to say make way my more then my husband. Which I married four years ago and was mother and child for eight years before I took on marriage. So your facts would be nice to see in writing and from what book of knowledge you got them from.

Answer 7

I didn't see any question - just a ridiculous comment. I'm a woman, and I am quite independent of my own accord. I don't lean on anyone, I make my own way. Apparently you're hanging out with the wrong type of women.

Answer 8

You just don't get it. Women are supposed to be protected, first by their fathers and then their husbands. Otherwise, they're hunted down by wolves like you who only want to use their bodies and confuse their minds. When fathers were real fathers, women didn't have to worry about this. They lived at home, until the right man came along--the man their father approved of. Now, all we have is chaos. Because fathers aren't protecting their daughters, the wolves are devouring them. Sad.

Answer 9

Is it that they don't foster a sense of independance or they are prevented from doing so?

How many times have you heard about a woman who is her own person getting sneered at for not "knowing her place"?

Answer 10

Well, apparently we know different kinds of 'girls'. Some girls are like this I'm sure, but the ones I know are not. The ones I know are very independent. But maybe the difference is that you truly are talking about 'girls' instead of 'women'.