I know people say that you might have chemistry but can it be real? I'm generally intelligent, self motivated and focussed....put a certain man in front of me and I'm a all candy floss and fluff, I can't concentrate on anything....even what he's saying half the time. This effect will usually last for a good hour or so after i'v seen him. At the grand old age of 37 I need an answer to this...it's driving me insane ! And i'd like to put it down to science rather than just lust.
2007-05-17 00:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They call it pheromones. They are like plant alkaloids. They don't really understand how it all works.
More here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pheromones#Human_pheromones
2007-05-17 01:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Part Time Cynic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i believe there is a chemical reactions when special people meet they give out signals to each other ,smiles eye contact ,blushing etc. All of these things is the human body simply reacting to the signals that people consciously or unconsciously put out toward another , and yes I am afraid for lack of a more affirmative word for this chemical reaction lets just simply call it lust................
2007-05-17 01:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, the affairs of the heart..
I think chemistry is when you both feel the same way, so i hope he feels the same way about you..
Tigger is right about the feel good chemical in our brain..it happens when we exercise too..
I think it's important to say feeling good and being in love or even infatuation are very different from lust..good luck with it anyway..maybe you could keep us posted..
2007-05-17 10:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by ;) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not chemical it is a whole set of variables that tell you that this is a good thing, even breath changes, have you ever noticed how the way you breathe can change the way that you feel? It can put you in a trance almost.
2007-05-17 01:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, defenatelly. In our brain there is chemicals and when you see someone that is nice looking the chemicals in your brain respond to this by causing you an erection so there for yes, there is a chemical reaction which occurs when you are with someone special.
2007-05-17 01:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by craxxxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I imagine it is more than a chemical reaction. It is quite mystical really. We are complicated creatures.
It sounds like you are in love. Congratulations. It doesn't happen to everyone. Never really happened to me. But then my emotions were messed up when I was young.
2007-05-17 00:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Birdman 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He He! - forget the science this is what makes the world go round. Hope it's not too complicated just remember - it is not a rehearsal.
Best of luck
2007-05-17 01:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
endorphin rush in the brain releases happy hormones called serotonin
2007-05-17 03:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I think we just get overwhelmed by everything else..we find ourselves in a dumb state. I don't think it matters whether it's a man or woman, just sometimes it happens, and then you feel real dumb.I wish I could kick myself when it happens, I just feel dumb
2007-05-17 01:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adrenalin etc
2007-05-17 02:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Canute 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋