I know I do, i mean my parents love each other still, we're not rich, not poor. We get buy and have some to spare, I go to a relatively good school. I'm not starving or permanetly traumatized.
I'm not saying I have a perfect life, I have problems but not nearly as much as others do.
Sometimes I feel so guilty that even start crying. Or that I don't really have a right to feel pain since others do it more often and have it to much sever degree. Is this bad?
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I'm also adopted from South Korea and I feel really bad that I took a chance away from some other orphan who might be able to a better job then me cause no matter how hard I try all I do is screw up.
Sometimes it bothers me to know that if something had gone just a little bit away in the opposite direction my parents (who i love more than anybody else) could be telling someone else how much they love them and I could be stuck in an orphange in korea. Is this just selfish?
2007-05-16 23:45:29 · 6 answers · asked by SarangHaeyo 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For a change think that u have a right to live and grow too just as others.
I wished i didnt walk I might have killed an ant or a bacteria on its way.
For God's sake stop being hard on urself, and why will u screw up, we all screw up big time, at times in our life, I you feel bad for other orphans, go on, improve ur live and help orphans with ur charity
U dont need to feel guilty for being happier than the more sad people on earth, it stupid I tell u, plain, and a blunt stupid.Instead, make the most of u good life , improve it, grow bigger n better, and help the under-privileged .I curse u to get out of ur stupid guilt.
2007-05-17 00:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe we are not perfect in this world no matter how you live your life to be good or not, I could still say that each one of us has a guilt feeling in one way or another. Isn't it?
I do believe that all people living in this world whether they have a good status in life & even the fully educated person can feel the guilt feeling maybe within the self or the different aspect areas in our lives.
So, Guilty feeling is normal but it depends how you handle it.
2007-05-17 00:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dawnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel guilty. Everyone has a place on this earth, some better than others. You did nothing to make life harder or miserable for others, so why feel guilty over it? Only when you intentionally cause pain or suffering should you feel guilty & this is not the case. Of course, you can always work to make this world better for the less fortunate than you.
2007-05-17 00:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by duke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel more guilty that someone from NORTH Korea isn't in your shoes.
J/k. don't worry about it. Everything happens for a reason. Just go and become president... a GOOOD president, then you'll be forgiven.
2007-05-16 23:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by chuckles_mcfukbuckle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being selfish, you seem like a well educated
caring person, remember that you cannot put the worlds
problems right. Enjoy your parents and enjoy yourself,
2007-05-17 00:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by mickjack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,but remember nothing lasts and you dont know what lies around the corner
2007-05-16 23:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋