Im asian and i have a really tight parents. From birth to like this age of 17. My family are really in to self-respect and dignity so they want me to be a high-class girl with manners and behave like a good girl. Im really sick because i have like missed out a lot of my social life because of this. Im not even allowed to go parties, hang out with boys, dress up . Im not allowed to come back home late, my time is 5-6pm. I have to be in or like they get really scared and think im killed or raped lol!! Im really sick and tired and im going to be 18 in this december. and on top of that Ive just got a job and it starts from 6pm-11pm and its a really high standard work and im so lucky to get it. But my parents think the time is not good so they dont want me work which really pissed me off. Its like they're going to be like this my whole life. How do i make them realise im old..and i can be independent and i can handle myself. how do i do this ? I desperatly need help...
2007-05-16 21:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
17 is old??? I must be half-past dead...
Anyway, be grateful your parents care about you.
You can move out when you're 18.
2007-05-16 22:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not old!!!it`s just the age...they know what they say and do ...so start listen to them!!!and if u wanna work the ...simple...tell them that u`ll go to work cause u wanna learn how to take care for ur self for the future...and at 11 pm they one of ur parents will come after u to take u home...belive me...they will be tired every night coming after u... :)
just play theyr games and u`ll see it`s for ur own good!!!i was 18 years old once...and now i rememver some thing and sometimes i regret that i didn`t listen 2 my parents!!!!
belive me u don`t want to regret after a few years that u didn`t listen 2 ur parents...oana(wanna)
2007-05-17 05:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start behaving grown up
dont be swayed by their money chains
2007-05-17 05:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u make me think of 1001 ways to spoil you....
2007-05-17 05:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Pleased to Please 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋