2007-05-16 21:46:45 · 15 answers · asked by jaded 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Damn. Now I know why I'm not married. You married people are effed up! I'll just stick with the bad girls and hope for the best.
2007-05-16 21:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its the first step in things falling apart. Sex for women is intimacy not just pleasure. When you no longer want to be intimate then there is a reason. Sometimes its due to unresolved issues..............sometimes its because sex was the basis for the relationship to begin with and somewhere along the road we realize that we need more. If hes like most men the no sex is gonna make things worse because it is a physiological need for them. Id suggest you reevaluate the foundation of your marraige and work on being friends again. When you get old and the sex is no more there has got to be something to keep you there.
2007-05-16 21:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by txpuddinpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you entering menopause? I don't think this is a reflection of how you feel about your husband so much as the way you are feeling about yourself. I would certainly think that if your feelings for your husband had changed that drastically you would have many more issues arising than just not feeling phsyically intimate with him. This could be the result of a change in diet, change in your daily activities. Consider consulting your physician about this. It could be a hormone imbalance or a number of other reasons.
2007-05-16 21:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by linehancomputerservices 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No but it could mean another problem, I would have yourself checked by a medical doctor. This could be signs of a chemical imbalance in your body. Which if untreated could lead to bigger problems down the road. If they doctor gives you a clean bill of health then you need to see a mental health professional about this issue, there maybe some other mental issue that is causing a problem. If this is a sudden change I would defiantly seek medical advise quickly.
2007-05-16 21:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by gearnofear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but there may be some emotional issues that you have not dealt with that you need to confront. If it's not just your husband, and you're feeling no sex drive at ALL, you may want to have a medical checkup, it could be a health-related issue, if you're old enough, it could be menopause and the mood and hormone swings that come with it.
2007-05-16 21:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, you are just bored by your surroundings, so a good thing to try would be to go on a trip, act out each other's fantasies and see where that takes the both of you.
2007-05-16 21:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you two definately have some major problems. Didn't touch my wife for over a year before we divorced. It was the very last thing I wanted to do.Well, with her...LOL!
2007-05-16 21:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just tired,emotionally and/or physically,tell your husband about it.Maybe too, you are just looking for romance in your marriage,not exactly the "love"that you meant.
2007-05-16 22:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by sugarfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens to a lot of women, but it ususally means you need to speak to a professional...not the internet.it could be a range of things.are you bored in bed?do you guys have a good relationship outside of that? does he give attention to only you when you need it?
think about it...
2007-05-16 21:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by hippyp23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you come to this stage, there is trouble in your marriage. Seek counseling or you will end up cheating on your husband.
2007-05-16 21:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋