When you told him you were pregnant?

Question

What`s the first reaction of your guy/husband when you told him that you were pregnant?

Or guys what were your first reaction when your gf/wife told you that she was pregnant?

(Even though they love children, is it that some men are panicked when they hear about this?Why so?)

Your experiences would be most welcome.....

Thanks ;-)

Answer 1

He was ecstatic. I was crying and he was smiling, saying 'it's okay'. He loves kids, basically raised his nieces....so he was so happy to of had his own.

Answer 2

The first time we were both at home and waiting very nervously for the pregnancy test. I finally took a look at the kit and told him i was pregnant. He was very happy because we had been trying for some months. This time, i needed some days to gain courage before i told my boyfriend that i was pregnant. He was laying on the sofa and looking at me in a funny way and asking, again "But aren't you worried at all that your period is now so late?". So, I took a deep breath and said "I am pregnant and I was trying to find a way to tell you". He looked hard at me and I started crying (he did not want to be a father again), so he reached for my hand, pulled me to him and hugged me. He needed time to adjust to the idea, but now is happy and we're awating the arrival of our baby daughter

Answer 3

So hubby advance into "playing you the two" sounds approximately actual. with a bit of luck your on some start administration so he would not finally end up with 2 toddlers with 2 females. whilst a guy says, "i wade by way of a divorce" you respond with "nicely Frank call me whilst the divorce is signed ok till we've not got something". A separated guy (he wasn't) is married. So even whilst they lie and say they are separated that's married with problems. she would be waiting to get complete custody via fact he's a cheat and he or she has the money to get the proper criminal expert!! that's the way it fairly works. you do no longer tell something. you would be able to desire to flow away him on my own now. do no longer answer any calls no longer something. Now you realize so which you haven't got any excuses. i does no longer think of you will choose a cheater for a clean bf. no longer with all the different adult adult males in the international....yet who's acquainted with.

Answer 4

My husband and I weren't married when I found out that I was pregnant with our first child. When I told him he totally flipped out! He told me that he would be gone before she was born because he didn't want anymore children. He already had two kids by previous girlfriends. He and I had a long, heated argument about it that night. Of course, he didn't leave and we are now expecting our second one(this one was planned!) When I told him I was pregnant with this one, he was actually pretty happy.

Answer 5

We both pretty much knew I was pregnant, because we was trying.
The Doctor is the one that came in the room after he performed the PG test, then came in the room and shook my Husbands hand and said Congratulations.
This Happened with both of my Pregnancies.

We both was really excited.


Now we have a grandson, wow, that is really exciting and fun as well!

Answer 6

I didn't tell my husband about this last one, he told me! I didn't believe him and refused to take the tast (though, out of respect for his "opinion" I stopped having my occasional drinks). Then one Sat. am... about a week *before* my period was due, when I went into the bathroom he followed me in and cracked open the test...

"you have to use it now or it will go to waste!" Well... he knows I hate to waste things... and besides, I was just going to prove him wrong... boy was *I* shocked!

He said he could tell because my natural scent and my taste had changed...

Answer 7

Some people don't tell the guys don't care about having about most of them just don't care. But to the ones that do care about the baby and yourself i say as soon as you find out, the longer you wait the most likely they'll denied it. When my sister had her baby, some people think the father wouldn't show but he loves his son and every since they been together his son or not.

Answer 8

it was over the phone I couldn't wait. It was our first try andhis first response was "that fast!". It was cute we were honestly expecting it to take months. He was so happy, that night when he saw me he started crying, actually today is a year to the date that I found out.

Answer 9

My man was angry and wanted me to abort. We had broken up because we had a stillborn and he couldnt cope. But I kept the baby and he has come back and we are very happy again.

Answer 10

my husband now, then not married, was 22 years old, and he was very happy about it, and over protective. he got a bit nervous but was over it very quickly.