Still need help on Question. Been seperated for 2 months married for 5 years, husband fell out of love with me. I slowly fell out of love with him we tried going on a few dates it just is not there. I just said Lord you take over I should have all ways said that . I am a Christian woman I like this guy he likes me . see i have not had the effection from my husband in over two years i mean he has not kissed me in 2 years, held my hand said he loved me our bed room 2 times last year it hurts and just to have this other guy to talk to to treat me like a Woman i like it . my husband said we will never get back to gether. I told my husband that he will have to divorce me i will not but i cant wait I am leaving it up to the lord but i dont want to keep me on hold. the other guy has been seperated for 1 year i never thought that i would like some one so soon he makes me feel good though we have not and i dont think will do any thing any time soon help please
2007-05-16 14:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by hia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to stop and think about this. First this guy is giving you the attention your husband didn't, so that makes you feel good. He also is married like you are, so in the eyes of the law your still legally binded to your husband, also in the eyes of the God, you would be sinning to make any kind of move with the new guy. Right now you are missing what your husband didn't give you, so think with your head and not your heart with this.
2007-05-16 15:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in God also, and I have learned over the years that He is always speaking to us and sending us signals. He also gave us free will so we could make our own choices. What makes you think that it is not the Lord who sent you somebody to give you some affection and make you feel better?
2007-05-16 15:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by melissa986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave it up to the lord- he aint gona do nothing for ya.
Divorse your husband and get with the dude you like.
2007-05-16 14:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dion J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is over with his wife. they will soon probably get divorced. life goes on. go for it.
2007-05-16 14:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by danelihpantalones;; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋