Ok, my friends can get pretty out of control ( I meant that in a bad way.) They make fun of me because I'm really really really really really slow when I run. When we play running games they whisper to each other of how easy it is to get me and how many times they got me. That's not all though. I have this little stuffed animal (hey, no making fun of me!) and my friend makes it say mean things about me. Please don't say I need new friends because, these are the only ones I've got!
2007-05-16 14:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just saying that I can't ignore them, or they'll think somethings wrong or I'm trying to get away from them. Then if they think that they'll be the ones with hurt feelings and I certainly don't want that. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings!
2007-05-16 14:31:14 · update #1
sorry kiddo but you do need new friends. because people who treat you bad are not your friends. OR you could tell the little monsters that they are hurting your feelings and that they need to stop if they don't stop ,don't be friends with them because people don't really like the ones that let others hurt them , remember you are a strong girl and from reading your question I would say you have a great personality also one more thing. you can find other friends I am sure, keep your chin up
2007-05-16 14:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I hate to break it to you, but these 'friends' you would be better off without. I dont know how old you are, and even though that could make a difference, I know that these are friends that you cant truly trust or have fun with. Try being nice to a shy girl/boy or sitting with the new kid at lunch. Though this can be hard, its also appreciated and worth it in the long run.
2007-05-16 14:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to want to have a stuffed animal to keep in your locker or at home. you need to explain to your friends that it hurts your feelings when they talk about how "slow" you are, and how they make fun of the things you like. tell them if they were good friends, they'd respect you and stop. if not, take a break from them and make a new friend.
2007-05-16 14:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your so called "friends" are not friends. You need to meet some new people and stop being the source of their dumping on for the insecurities they hold. I used to have so called "friends" that did this to me when I was younger--and many many years later---I'm light years ahead in everything. I wouldn't give it much thought and ignore them--what makes them holier than thou anyway! Good luck.
2007-05-16 14:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by MicG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point you will find that your better at something than your friends and its amazing how quickly they forget the teasing.
2007-05-16 14:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by andyjh_uk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are not your friends.
honestly. its really easy making new ones.
all you gotta do is speak up and try to be yourself.
youll find some that are just like you.
i did it and i tend to be shy.
give it a shot
2007-05-16 14:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by nonoame :] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you react in any way they will continue to tease you. Laugh with them and DO NOT let them know they are getting to you and it will end soon. In other words - Grow up.
2007-05-16 14:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you should write them a letter, they might not even know how much they are hurting your feelings.
2007-05-16 14:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by mary tyler moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i'm not going to say you need NEW friends, i'm going to say you need friends, period. because you obviously don't have any right now.
2007-05-16 14:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them
2007-05-16 14:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by sNowflaKeS♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋