i've got a best friend,B i met her through A on my first day in high skool...at first we were best frens but later cuz we found that we didn't like A so we kinda dropped her... B and i have been together for about a year now..... used to be ok with her....but now i seem to not be able to stand her...i mean we have not much about to talk to....when we hang out we usually have alot of silent moments...and i can't stand the part whenever she tells me about her family like her mom scolding her,her sis iritating her...honestly i find it totally boring...but as a best fren i guess i should provide a listening ear for her rite?anyway, just becuz we are cosidered best frens so act like how best frens are supposed to act like telling each other secrects ....she hasn't done anything to hurt me but i don't enjoy really much bein wit her...whats wrong?isit just me or her?what should i do?personally i think i'm keepin wit her becuz everyone has got cliques and i don't wanna be left alone.
2007-05-16 14:01:48 · 5 answers · asked by BH6413021 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's both of you. It sounds like you get tired of people quickly though, so that's something you can focus on. Figure out why you get so bored of people. Do you tend to be a perfectionist? That can drive people away. I think you should be a little more supportive of your friend. Ask your friend to tell you more about her family. If she says something negative, ask what she likes about her family and try to build off that. I do think it's mean that just because you don't like what she's talking about, you want to drop her. I'm sure people aren't always interested in what you're talking about but they listen anyway and try to become more involved. In order to have a friend, you need to be a friend.
2007-05-16 14:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm it may be just a scene. I get really annoyed of my best friend too. Sometimes i cant take her habbits i have so many pet pieves but take a little time off from her and come back a nicer person. It may be you, but if that^^ doesnt work just drop it.
2007-05-16 14:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by megen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude its you if she is that annoying stop hangin round her
2007-05-16 14:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...
Maybe it's both of you.
Just leaning a bit on to your side.
Give her more of a chance.
2007-05-16 14:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its totally you
2007-05-16 14:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋