I don't mind really it's kind of a turn on but I don't want her to hide it because man or woman cheating is cheating.
2007-05-16 13:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im bi but married and love my hubby to pieces . but talk to her about it like my hubby did honesty is a big thing and now we watch freaky movies and he watches me talk dirty with bi women on chat thing and it turns us both on and makes our relationship even better . we talked about having another women get involved but decided against it cuz i dont want to ruin what we have. so we just keep to getting freaky with movies or chatting online . and i dont feel so closed up and wanting a girl instead cuz i watch it and get to chat with a girl and with my hubby by myside makes it way more fun cuz he likes it alot lol!!! hope it helps
2007-05-16 14:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're not open to having a threesome then I would talk to her about your feelings. I may have liked guys with blonde hair/blue eyes or brown hair/brown eyes whatever but I married a man with brown hair/blue eyes so what do I do? Go ahead and have sex with someone with blonde hair just because I am missing that? Hell no! Once you are married, you are choosing to be with that person, and only that person! I am wondering if you all talked about this possiblity BEFORE you were married? If so, you would have had an agreement of some sort that you would know what to expect or so she would know what you expected of her. I totally agree with you about it being cheating whether it's with a man or a woman. She can't just say that because she was bi before marriage and that is what she was use to and she misses that and expect you to be ok with it. Now your best bet would probably be to have a threesome, especially since you said it was a turn on to you. This way everyone wins and she won't have that feeling of needing a woman and end up getting it on the side behind your back! :)
2007-05-16 15:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am bi as well. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we've had quite a few 3somes. However, this was very well talked about and rules were set before any of it took place. Talk to her about bringing home a chick..but set rules to make things comfortable. Remember, bi means two, so it's not that she doesn't love you and isn't attracted to you, it's that she is attracted to women as well. One last thing... If you trust her this might work. If not, I don't recommend it.
2007-05-16 14:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you made a mistake and now you want to know what to do. Cheating is cheating. I dealt with this kind of relationship when I was young and it was hell. Glad to have gotten out of it and over it. Cut your losses. You will never have the true relationship you are seeking here.
2007-05-16 14:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi and I can tell you, bi people are never happy with one same sex partner all the time. I know she's your wife and all, but she's still bi and marriage won't change that. Trust me, if I thought marriage would turn me straight, I would marry, but it won't. Bi people are just like that.
2007-05-16 13:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by mark v 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
who reported it become effortless to locate people like you? so keep on attempting the internet because no individual contained in the line will act like he /she needs what you favor. basically wish and pray that sometime you'll locate the real nice people you're wishing for. yet believe me, all issues lost its glitter if used continously. how do they say it? Familiarity breeds contempt. so sturdy success !
2016-10-18 08:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her man. Thats the only real way to get through this. Let her know how you feel and start an open dialoug about it.
2007-05-16 13:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act out a fantasy a lot of men have and have a 3some.
2007-05-16 14:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by nenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she can have a one night stand now and then if you get to watch. Or just tell her she can have a one night stand now and then as long as she tells you about it before it happens and then tells you all the details the next time the two of you have sex. Or just tell her she can have a one night stand now and then.
2007-05-16 13:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
just ask her and tell her its alright and if you want to make a little freaky let another women join yous during you fun love making time....
2007-05-16 13:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋