i was with a girl(relationship), i have been with her 1 year but now i told her to break up and she starts crying and says "i love you pls don't break up with me" and then i said "i'm sorry but i don't like to be with you anymore" .should i go back with her or move on ?
2007-05-16 13:41:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do what you feel is right, if you think you can be better off without her then do it, but if you care about her a lot then stay with her, besides you could get a little something out it (cough)..sex!...(cough)...
2007-05-16 13:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by mdz 1234 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-20 15:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by millicent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, is good that you are being honest with yourself and your girlfriend. The best thing to do is move on if you are not happy in the relationship. Is better to leave now then stay and regret it later. She will feel sad for a while specially if she's really into you but she will thank you later, trust me.
2007-05-16 13:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Gab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man it really depends on how you feel. Don't go back to her out of guilt. A relationship that is based on guilt or manipulation will not work. I know she is hurt but if your not happy with her and want to move on then you should. She will get over it and she may even spread false rumors about you at school but she will get over it. Just move on and find someone that will make you happy. God Bless.
2007-05-17 00:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being or returning for someone for pity shouldnt be done for a relationship savior..if you really love her and think you made a mistake then you should go for it but dont expect it to be so flowing..she might start telling you off after you've gotten back with her..the best thing to do is calmly explain to her that you've rather go solo and you can still talk if you need someone to talk to. i mean whatever fits with you. otherwise, if you really dont like her company then its time to start from scratch....for the both of you...your not the only ones for eachother. Explore. thats what life's about!
2007-05-16 13:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go back to her out of sympathy, you're really not doing anyone any favours. You've already expressed how you feel to her, so if you go back she will always know that you're with her out of sympathy. You don't like being with her anymore, so you will resent being with her, and you may end up doing something that will hurt her even more.
She may cry and may take time to get over her pain, but if this is truely how you feel, then break it off.
2007-05-16 13:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you! If you broke it off with her because you sincerely do not want to be with her anymore, then don't be with her... it isn't fair to you or her to stay in the relationship just because she's begging you to! Hope this helps!
2007-05-16 13:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jacki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. If you don't want to be with her anymore, then don't be with her!! She'll get over it. And there are plenty of other people out there. You shouldn't force yourself to be with her. Good luck
2007-05-16 13:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her, then move on. No matter when you break up, she'll be hurt -- but less now than later.
2007-05-16 13:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyCarl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your reasons are well enough why woud you go back with her? just to keep her happy, you need to be happy too and im a woman i know how it feels to be alone in love and to be left, so i understand her too but, you are talking about what you should do and it soulds like you already made you decisions.....good luck....
2007-05-16 13:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dorothy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋