please tell me, because i love my g/f ashley with all my heart and i proved my love to her in everyway except sex and marrage. I want to ask her to marry me. I am in love with her, we only been with each other for a year but she is the one for me. She is the most beatiful,wonderful,nicest,sexe... girl on the planet. Since i met her, my life changed, the past year has been the greatest year in my entire life. Ashley is my better half and i will never stop loving her. She is crazy about me, she told me if it was up to her, she would never stop holding me. I said i will never stop holding you, i will hold her for all the DAYS OF OUR LIVES. I will never cheat on her, i will not pressure her into having sex, i will wait till she is ready. She doesnt have to go out to have a good time, she rather be home with me and watch a movie on the couch and cuddle up. She is my life and i will never stop being by her side. She is my oxygen,i cant go on without her love. I love her with all my heart
2007-05-16 13:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so how old can u be to get married. we are 17 years old and in high school. I know i am in love with her because no girl in the history of my life has ever captured my heart like she did. i gave her the one thing i would never give up and that is my family cross, but she is the one for me, i love her and i gave it too her. she tried to not let me because it means so much to me but i wanted her to wear it to prove that she is my girl and that i will be by her side for the rest of out lives, i told her i will never stop loving her. She started to cry when i told her the sweets stuff and she just ran into my arms and cried. I did put it around her beautiful neck. i love her with all my heart
2007-05-16 13:40:29 · update #1
It varies from state to state in America. The fact you must ask this tells me you are too young. Not to mention common sense.
It is very admirable, your mutual restraint regarding sex. I hope you are proud of yourself because it is not easy in these days of loose morals. A little voice in my head whispers that one reason you are so in love is that very desire you are keeping in check. That is how it is under such situations. It keeps things on edge and very hot which, especially in the teens, can be very intertwined with love. And that is how it should be.
That being said, I have yet to see such passion last for long. You need to wait until you are of an age. You might find things can change. If you head off to college or whatever. The best for healthiness in a life long relationship is usually when the man is 5 years older than the woman. Ideally she is in her early 20's the best age for motherhood.
In Islam there is a saying that is so very true. "When you have a man and a woman alone, there are three in the room. The third is Shaytaan and he is urging you ever onwards to higher levels."
You are just plain too young. You don't need to work, pay bills, deal with problems. That is life and what you feel now is just the beginning. You need life experience first.
I wish you well kiddo. You do sound like a good kid, with high ethics. However, you are still too young.
2007-05-16 14:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but,it sounds to me like you are obsessed with her.I got married at the age of 14 and it was great for the first couple of years he was much older.
If you guys are as in love as you think than you guys can wait.I agree with the other answerer about are you really ready.Do you work does she.Where would you guys live.
I am telling you from experience that I am now divorced and I have a child by him.I did not get to finish school and I did not get to have my life.I have a wild streak now cause I did not get to live out my teenage years.
The world is a cold place and its even colder when you are on your own.It's going to hurt more when you are on your own and not able to give her what she wants.
Having sex is not a reason to get married.Please I am begging you to wait and really think about this,please.
IF she did not want to wear the necklace at first than maybe there is a reason for this.
2007-05-16 14:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by what did you say 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I married my wife when i was 25 and she was 22. We have good and bad moments all the time. But we still love each other. It is a big commitment though, things will change after you get married.
2016-05-20 15:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by millicent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states women are allowed to get married at the age of 17. The same is not true with men, most states require that men be at least 18.
You can get engaged and wait until your both of are legal age to be married.
2007-05-16 13:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by wolvrine24 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No girl in the history of you life, HISTORY there is no history in your life you are 17. You are crazy maybe you should think about this a little more, maybe talk to your parents about it.
90% of people that get married at that age get divorced within 3 years.
2007-05-16 13:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not get married until you are close to 30--experience what life has to offer. All of that stuff wears off and soon you are strapped with bills and problems. Enjoy life and make enough money before you need to buy a home--get married--and have children.
2007-05-16 13:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by MicG 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In the USA, Canada, and Mexico you must be 18 to get married without parental consent.
2007-05-16 13:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you two sweet! What you aren't is mature and adult. You are in the middle of some romance novel right now that has absolutely nothing to do with real life, real issues, and real adult decisions. Get a grip, grow up, and then you might be able to decide who you need to have an honest mature relationship with. Right now you are children.
2007-05-16 14:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you could try to get emancipated and then be able to get married without parental consent. If your still with your parents then you both need permission to get married or just get married at 18.
2007-05-16 13:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 you can get married
but are you ready?
Where will you live?
How will you support yourselves?
Will you go to college?
Are you ready for children?
Can she COOK?
Just a couple of things to think about. I knew that I was marrying my husband when I was 14, but we waited until he graduated college. still together and happy:)
2007-05-16 13:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋