Question on Bisexual relationships and high school.....?

Question

Ok, so I am a girl, and if you couldn't figure it out from the title I am bi.....now i once asked this question before but i didnt get the results i was looking for, everyone kept suggesting going to a gay bar, and if i wasn't underaged i would.

Anyway, my question to you is this, I lately have "found myself" to be cliche, but i did that after being made fun of for several years, now after all that I have found out i am bi and due to some bad relationships with guys i would love to get into one with a girl. How do i do that though, especially in a high school atmosphere?

I am openly bi. I wont say no if you as me if i am but i wont stick out my chest and boast. So how can i try to get together with someone without exposing myself to possible teasing?

I hope you understand my question......and i hope that you can help me

Answer 1

I must sincerely aplaud your forthwright attitude and fourtitude about yourself. On the flip side of the coin, we ARE discussing high-school here. There is absoulutely NO WAY yo are going to be able to avoid the jerks, morons and absoulutely ignorant people in school. In short, you unfortunately WILL be made fun of by someone at least once a week. I'm very sorry about how hurtfull this may sound, yet I refuse to lie to anyone about what is most definitely going to happen. However, there is a silver lining to all this doom and glom I've just given to you. You will find a lover. No if's, or's, or but's about it. The only thing is, you have to go looking for her. What you should do first of all is see if there is a listing for an adolesant LGBT center in town, or the next if your town is on the small side. You are more than likely to find a young lady to whom you will find an attraction to. Hopefully, she will as well. This, considering you're in high-school would be ideal, yet it may not be possible for you, hence it is only a suggestion. The hardest thing to do would be to go and look for a girlfriend at your school. Yet it's not impossible either. You will need patience and understanding for this. Many young men and women don't realize their sexuallity until later when they've left high-school and landed into a more "open-minded" place, namely maturity and brains. The worst hting to do would be to give up now and wait many years to find another person to share your life with. As crazy and frightening as this may sound, enlist(draft really) the help of some of your VERY close friends to see if they can help ask around for a ligitimete girlfriend for you. Once the two of you have found each other, take the time to get to know each other BEFORE having a sexual relationship(this is where most young people make their mistakes, by rushing things towards sex) together. Trust me, this world needs MORE people in real love with each other than all the other things people world wide say we need. Like a new gas guzzling S.U.V. from Ford for example.

Answer 2

I'm sorry that you have been 'hurt by guys' but I really don't think that it is at all 'appropriate' to get into ANY FORM OF SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP when you are still in 'high school' ... but if you 'insist' then I think that you should join a 'club' of other bisexuals, where you may meet 'the girl of your dreams' ... or the guy of your dreams ... or maybe both. Try doing a 'search' on the Internet for 'underage bisexual clubs' and see what 'comes up' ... and GOOD LUCK, dear.

Answer 3

Find the LGBT chapter closest to your area, a lot of them have groups specifically for teenagers, where you can meet and network with other teenagers who are like you. It must be difficult to feel so alone. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Honey, just dont look for girls in your school to get together with.

Answer 5

well now'a days thats where most of teenagers find themselfs