If you were raped....?

Question

....would you wish that the rapist kill you afterward or would you want to live and deal with the psychological trauma forever?

Answer 1

I've been through a situation like this. I was molested when I was a teenager for several years. I chose to fight to live. I had my good days and my bad days where I had thoughts of ending it all. I learned though that life was worth fighting for and if I ended it then I would let that person win. Instead he had to pay for what he did and live to know that he didn't get the best of me. I still have moments when I feel uncomfortable in certain situations. It has taken a lot of talking to a close friend and soul searching but I feel like I've gotten better. It's stil hard to trust guys and I tend to be standoffish with them. I still deal with my emotions from what happened but it's getting better.

Answer 2

It is indeed something that can be dealt with in time if you have good company and perhaps some therapy. Plus some revenge would be nice; if you're lucky you'll be able to get a good description of him to the police. Besides, who would want to die at the hands of a loser like that? I think that would surly be the worse end of the deal. Letting such a creep take your life is a horrible thing; loosing some sanity however may let you deal with the future in a different mindset.

Answer 3

um...ive been through that. there are support groups and you can still have flashbacks once in a while but after a few yrs it just doesnt bother you really.

id rather put their asses in jail. too bad the one got free though. i do get nervous a little because i see him around outside in the parking lot sometimes. its possible he could be getting people to gang up and kill me or something. although youd think he would already do it by now. i guess the police always scouting around prevents him. im glad hes handicapped now because that means its harder for him to seek revenge for me getting him in jail a few months (he only got a few months unfortunately)

its kinda like once you go through with it, it just makes you want to have sex more because you are waiting for the right person to do it and almost erase the bad experience. what i mean is having a good sexual session pushes the bad hidden away.

in a way it makes me stronger. i now know to be more pushy on saying no. i learned not to take crap from anybody.

Answer 4

i would want to live afterwards. There're many women out there who've lived on and put it all in the past and if they can why can't i? It will be a lot to handle at first but time heals all no?

After all, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger in every way.

Answer 5

live and deal with the psychological trauma forever

Answer 6

I`ll live and then maybe describe the look of his face to the cops so they could arrest him.
But before that, I would probably beat the sh*t out of him for revenge. And maybe even cut out his tongue or something.

Answer 7

Aw hell, i'll take the psycho trauma with a side order of physical maiming,a little insignificant therapy and a hospital bill! "Send me dead flowers"

Answer 8

I would fight with everything I had to prevent it. I'd rip off his member with my bare hands....or with my teeth if it came to that. Uhhhhhh, ok that's a little gross right?? LOL. Anyway, to spare you from any more of my nonsense, let me just say that I'd fight to the death, if need be--him or me. Hopefully, him. Obviously, I have some pretty strong feelings about this issue... :-). *Whew*, getting a little hot in here :-).

Answer 9

I don't think anyone should die for there indiscretion but they should have to live with guilt if they have no guilt they will be dealt with at a later time and its worse than prison or lethal injection

Answer 10

I'll rather stay alive, I think there are nice drugs that make you see pretty lights for the trauma ^_^