help me please ?

Question

what do i do if my friend/cousin is only 13 years old and she is pregnant.
she wants advice from me and i dont know what to tell her.
any ideas ?
her parents dont even know yet.
abortion ?
or have the baby ?
get help ?
tell her parents ?
let her tell them herself ?
HELP ME PLEASE .

Answer 1

If I was you I would sit down and talk to your friend and ask them if they are willing to keep this baby. If so then you and her both need to go to her parnets to tell them. This may make it easier on her. If she doesn't want the baby then suggest adoption. Anything but abortion. There are hundreds of couples out there that will be willing to take her baby. You also need to find out if the baby's father is going to be in the baby's life. If not then you need to get her to talk to someone about how that makes her feel.

Answer 2

Well its up to her to have the baby or not....not even her parents could make her have an abortion. I would ask her if she wants you to go with her to talk to her parents. Tell her talk to them as maturely as possible; about how she understands the seriousness of the situation and how the situation(and not the baby) is a mistake...Stuff like that. Its just going to be a process of taking it day by day because no matter what age even parents of pregnant 30 year olds who are married will freak out...

Answer 3

you need to tell her to definately tell her parents , if she won't thinking they'll flip out.....then you need to tell your parents so they can get the help this friend/cousin needs. At 13 she must be freaking out* The only way to help her is to let the parents know* They'll do what's right for her*Best of luck*

Answer 4

well you can just listen to her that would be a big help. well i guess first thing would be tell her parents even though she dont' want to, they might be mad but will still love her no matter what,( here i got pg when i was 24 and my bf at the time were scared to tell my parents sad huh) so no matter what age you are its still scary. if she wants be her support and just be their for her. they will help her thru this tough time. good luck

Answer 5

wow man, did she know that she was too young for sex? anyways you should have the baby, telling her parents might be good rather than just waiting for them to know, their parents will find out anyways so get it over and done with. let her know someone said good luck to parent hood to your friend/cousin

Answer 6

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Answer 7

dont let these anti abortionist bother you its her body and her decision if she wants an abortion then she can have it. She needs to tell her parents. IF she decides to have it then she should give it up for adoption

Answer 8

OOOOHHHHHHHHHH MMMY GARSSSSSH, I had a baby when I was 13 toooo hahahahaha I am th best mom ever and just im young doesnt mean im not strict

Answer 9

if she doesn't tell her parents soon, i think you should tell them. tell her if she doesn't tell them soon you'll have to. if she wants to have an abortion, she should be allowed to but her parents need to know.

Answer 10

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