Why do black women think the only guys with "BIG Ones" are the black guys!?

Question

I beg to differ!
I'm a white guy and I am NOT small at all!
Many black women seem very dedicated to their black men because they feel that other races of men could not possibly satisfy them sexually!
I really wish that stereotype would go away for once!!!!
I am attracted to certain black women but it seems as though they are not attracted to me.
ME: 5'11", slim 170lbs, dark brown hair, blue eyes, hippie type...Harvard student.

Answer 1

Thats a dangerous generalization to same black women, and many black women. Are there some black women that think that, sure, and there are white women who think the same thing. And some black women actually do believe that size has nothing to do with the color of the man.

Answer 2

Everyone is going to probally slam me, but what you say is true. We have a loyalty to our black men. One of the reasons is the sexual prowess. It is not necessarilty the size but the action. I have never been with a white man. I must point that out to avoid divorce court (smile) But, I have been tempted and sexual prowess has always been a deciding factor.

(Fingers crossed that my husband does not read this) Many black women are attracted to white men. The thing is, once a black woman is with a white men, black men have less respect for her. My own husband told me that he would not have married me if I had ever been with a white man. So, when we do be with a white man, it can mean all or nothing for us. Many black men consider sistas that have been with white men as damaged goods. Once we leave, we can never go back sometime

****In response to "Just another" I keep it real. This is not a fluff issue but a very real one. I have not met every black man in the world, but I have been privy to many conversations. The fact of the matter is that MANY black women look at white men as lacking sexual prowess, this is fact. It is fact that MANY black men consider a sista sullied once she is with a white man. Love is comditional no matter how you look at it. If it were not, then there would not be as many divorces as it is today. Unconditional love means that you can look over EVERYTHING. That is not the case. I was honest in my response. If you look hard enough at anyone response to anything, you can find something that will deem it as stereotypical.

Answer 3

I don't think it's black women.I think its all women!Mainly because most Black men have Big ones!And I guess women want that. But if your attracted to a black woman act like it shes not thinking about the size of your U Know. So maybe you shouldn't. By the way I'm black With a white male friend who has a above average part. So just know were not attracted to big ones were attracted to big Powerful men. Hope I helped

Answer 4

You sound hot by the way lol. Yeah.... you shouldnt stereotype all black women, because this black woman has been with white men who were "TOO BIG" for me. I dont think about black mens penis anyway, because I have no desire to see it. And dont worry, there are a lot of black women who think like I do in this case, maybe its the way the women around the area you live in think? You should move to Minnesota baby!!! lol Goodluck!

Answer 5

You're generalizing, sweetheart...

* I don't think all black men have "big ones", and I don't think all white men have "small ones"
* The only people on this Earth, that I have complete loyalty towards, are my family and my select group of friends. Period. I don't care what your race is...
* And I could care less about any man's di%k size, unless he's putting a ring on my finger, it won't matter anyway, because he's not getting any...

Answer 6

aww you sound so cute :]. Yea I wish it would go away too. It works my nerves when my friends bring it up in conversations. I've came across lot's of white dudes wit "big ones". Not all black men have big dickkz. As a matter of fact the biggest I ever had was with a white dude. I don't know who started this myth but it needs to be buried cuz it's starting to get old. Oh I would date u boo.....to bad I don't go to Harvard :[ ...

Answer 7

I have never seen a penis in real life but I have seen porn and I have seen white,Hispanic, and black men who have scarily big genitalia but never an Asian. Im sure there are some Asian men out there with big penii's why do you think there is so many Asians?

Answer 8

Did you think maybe that there's another reason (besides your genitalia) that they're not attracted to you? The only place that that is a prime consideration is in the porn industry. Maybe the black women you approach just identify more with black men. If you think penis size is the defining factor in a relationship, then you must truly have a big one, and its diverting blood flow from your brain.

Answer 9

You go to Harvard, and yet you ask a dumb question like this? Not all Black women think that way. And there are plenty of White women dating Black men. I'm a Black woman, and my husband is a well-endowed Asian.

Answer 10

It's a largely perpetuated myth that kind of came out of nowhere. It probably isn't true. But black women don't thinkg that way. I never have, I'm black and I'm a women, so quit generalizing the way you think we do.