help... please.. kinda embarissing?

Question

okay well me and my boyfriend havent had sex in a while and lately i have been having a lot of discharge.. is it because we haven't had sex? or just a hormonal thing?

Answer 1

Normal discharge is clear or milky and free of offending odor. A heavier discharge is normal during ovulation and is clear and can be strung between the fingers (it's viscous).
Thick and cottage cheese like generally = yeast infection.
Brown discharge generally = vaginitis (another form of infection) (or just before/after period)
Yellow grey or green and frothy can = trichamoniasis (most common STD/venereal disease)
Greyish can = bacterial vaginosis and can be frothy/heavy with a fishy odor.
Green or yellow can = Gonnorrhea or cervical problems.

If you suspect an infection (even yeast) your boyfriend can be carrying it too, so make sure you both get treatment.
Hopefully you're just ovulating :)

Answer 2

Sometimes it gets too dull if you do it too often or if you focus just on the orgasm. Believe it or not, masturbation can be fun and it's not all about the orgasm. If you play with yourself a bit, do different things, get yourself aroused, enjoy how it feels in your hands, and how it feels getting more and more aroused, etc, your orgasm will be more intense and much better. The reason you had such a good orgasm your first time is because it was new to you, so it was easy to arouse yourself. Now you're used to all those sensations so you have to work harder for it to be as good, but not too hard (don't worry). It helps to give yourself time to be aroused, play with the parts that feel good, slowly, it's not a race. And think about new things, look at porn if you have to, think about what you wanna do with whatever boy you like, etc. There are guides online to masturbation, and new things you can do to make it better. I don't feel like going in to great detail so just google 'female masturbation tips' and you should find something that'll help. Good luck! Oh, by the way, vibrators will be your best friend. I bought my first one at Spencers' Gifts on my own when I was 14, my friends were with me and they bought themselves ones too. If you're that comfortable with your friends, that definitely helps getting rid of the nervousness of buying anything sex-related.

Answer 3

well no matter what dis-charge is kinda worry-some. Could be anything from a yeast-infection (which,are caused by many thing from too much caffeine to stress or the guy giving to you) or possibly an STD....go get checked just in case

Answer 4

Depends on what kind of discharge...
if its white and chunky like cottage cheese it is a yeast infection... see your doctor for meds
if its green yellow it is most likley an std or infection ... get checkd ASAP
if its clear and thick or thin its normal
good luck and USE A CONDOM!!!

Answer 5

Discharge is normal, it's the shedding of cells from your vagina & it's hormonal. If your discharge isn't clear & has on odor or is itchy, you need to go see your doc for a check-up.

Answer 6

Both are not realted, if its yellow discharge or looks like cottage cheese you probably have a yeast infection. I think if its bothering you you should see your doctor or go to planned parenthood for evaluation

Answer 7

If you have a yeast infection, check out the link below for all the info you will want to know.

Best of luck.

Answer 8

Your discharge can vary, but if it is really heavy, has a bad smell, or a change in color you should see a doctor.

Answer 9

Its probably just a hormonal thing, but if your still worried you could always see your doctor.

Answer 10

I personally think its both. I know for a fact some women are always like that. whether they have sex often or not. Or maybe your body is wanting sex more.