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I'm 16 years old and in High School. I seriously think there is something wrong with me. I'm VERY jealous of my best friend. For once she has a guy like her and she enjoys talking to him. I suspect they are going to date. She has never had this attention before. I'm REALLY jealous. And I shouldn't be! I've had 5 guys ask me out in a 2 month time span- I turned them all down. I haven't had a boyfriend in a couple years though. I always find some flaw with those guys, and reject them.

I don't know why im jealous, and its really frustrating. Am I some freak? I feel like the worst friend in the world.....she was never jealous when I had all the attention.

:(

2007-05-16 11:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

22 answers

how do you know she wasn't jealous..maybe she was just better composed about it. But no..you shouldn't be jealous that she is liking boys and boys are liking her. Thats going to happen. Pretty soon she'll be hanging with her guy more than you..maybe thats what you are afraid of!? I Don't know whats wrong with that JADAL girl but that remark was just totally off the wall. Holy Cow!

2007-05-16 11:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 1 2

Sorry to bbe blunt.. but you are jealous for no reason. Your not the only woman in the world. Whats wrong with your friend having a guy talk to her. If you are so worried about you and your attention then go tlak to one of the 5 guys who just asked you out. It's lame to be jealous of a friend for having a guy talk to her.

2007-05-16 18:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2 1

jealousy is just common...especially in teenagers...i would have to bet that your friend had a little jealousy when you got the attention but you need to stop turning down those guys and live life...if you were some kind of freak there wouldnt be guys chasing you...but just go out and have a good time your just a teenager and like i said everyone gets jealous sometimes
hope this helps

2007-05-16 18:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by kyle 1 · 1 2

what i think happen is that you got used to having all of the attention and know that some is talking to your friend, you are going to feel left out. or maybe you like the guy that is talking to your friend.

2007-05-16 19:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it is natural to feel jelous a little. Good job turning those guys down though. It is never good to settle. Besides, you are 16, do you want to be one of those loosers that marries thier high school sweet heart? Your friend might be happy now, but it sounds like you know what is right for you too, and that is what matters.

2007-05-16 18:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

I think you are more jealous of her attention being taken away from you. I don't think you are actually jealous because she is getting attention. It's natural, just don't let it get the best of you.

2007-05-16 18:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 1 2

Your a teenage girl, they're ALL jealous. The only thing that would make your not planning to do anything dumb because of it ;)

2007-05-16 18:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by ***HDK*** 4 · 0 1

no you are not a freak. you are being overly jealous. envious.
you need to go out with someone and get serious, then you won't be jealous..

2007-05-16 18:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 1

No You aren't a freak. Jealously is a normal human thang....just try to keep it in perspective and focus on your friendship ...Good Luck

2007-05-16 18:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sheila S 2 · 0 2

You're not a freak. You're a teenager. What you're feeling is perfectly normal, and it's part of growing up.

2007-05-16 18:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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