help! pelase?

Question

i think im bisexual, i like girls but i like guys the way i like girls. i wouldn't mind dating one or kissing one, but im only 14 and i think i like men just as much as women.

the problem is i knew since i was little and i don't want people to think of me as anything less. is it ok to be bi?

guys just dont understand as much as girls. i don't know why some guys hate bis or gays. im scared.

even if i was bi, does that make me a bad person?

will girls ever date a bi guy?

im so upset

sorry i posted this twice =/

Answer 1

bisexuality is no different to heterosexuality or homosexuality, it's just as valid as either, it just means that it's possible to be attracted to boys AND girls, ratherthan one or the other.

you might find that you have to dispel the myths about bisexuals ( some people think that bisexuals sleeparound alot or don't care who we sleep with, including animals, bleurgh!).

i think alot of guys hate bis/gays because they are afraid of it, they don't like the idea of being hit on by a guy, and that causes agression as a means of deterrence, but that's part of human nature, still wrong though, particularly the ones that go all out to make other peoples lives a misery.

yes, girls will date bi guys.. to be honest mate, the ones that wont date bi guys due to their sexuality? aren't the kind of people you want to look at anyway, they're the shallow ones.

it is ok to be bi, it doesn't make you any less of a person, or a man.

at your age, you might find that your sexual orientation is still surfacing, so you may find in a couple of months or so that this bi-curiosity dissapears and you end up straight, or gay.. it's best to not worry about it.

go sit down, have a mug of hot chocolate, relax, read a book, there's nothing wrong with you at all, enjoy life.

Answer 2

yes i would definetly say you are bisexual. It's perfectly ok. If anything I would say it's an andvantage since now you have much more of a dting selection. Of course you are not a bad person for having fealings towards other guys. Have you told anyone you are bi yet? Please ignore ignorent people who are against you just for that reason. These people probably just grew up in overly religious families and are brainwashed by society to hate bis/gays. The thing you said about if girls will date you yea they should and if they will not except that maby they aren't the best person to go out with. And besides who says they have to know. so have pride in yourself

Answer 3

The way I see it is that you are scared of what others will think of you. Some will think less of you. Those who really care about you shouldn't really care. I understand what you're going through because i just turned 15 last year. I admit that i did go through some of that stuff. I had a big problem with getting too emotionally attached to friends(mainly guys) , the same way i would with girls. You aren't a bad person for thinking and or being that way. Thats your life not anyone elses. I should tell you that you issue is going to continue. Just listen to your heart. In the end you'll be happy. I hope that i've helped you. Good luck

Answer 4

It's okay to be bisexual. I am and I'm damn well proud of it. Woody Allen once said, "Being bisexual doubles your chance of a date on Saturday night." He is soo right. I knew I was bi from a young age also. Since I can remember, I have always liked girls a lot as well as guys. You are human being that was born bi. People that hate bis or gays are just ignorant. They're just misplacing their anger. I would date a bi guy. Don't worry there isn't anything wrong with it.

Answer 5

No you are not a bad person. No it is not OK to be bi. Only thing you should be doing at the age of 14 is school work or home work. How about kissing those books. You shouldn't even be thinking about a man in a woman way at all. Hey I still Love You.

Answer 6

It's okay. Being bisexual/homosexual doesn't make you a bad person. Though since you're still young, you may just be having mixed feelings. They could change in the near future. But if it doesn't, then that's okay too. If you're not comfortable coming out yet, just wait until your ready.

Answer 7

bisexual people are absolutely not bad people! don't worry! it is perfectly fine to be bi. it is something you can't really help either. I am a girl and i would date bi guy as long as he loves me and is true to me. i know many bisexual people. they are normal, nice, fun people.

Answer 8

I think you should get to know yourself and No you are not bad person if your bi. I think bi guys are HOT. don't worry you'll know if you are. for me it took pretty long time to find out i am bi.

Answer 9

Don't worry about labels. There are many men who call themselves straight who have sex with men and many who regard themselves as being gay who hve sex with women. You are whatever you say you are.

Humans are sexual beings not heterosexual or homosexual beings. We can be attracted to people of the opposite sex or the same sex or both. We can enjoy sexual reltionships with both sexes if we want to. Societal and religious constraints are what make most people conform to a stereotype but you don't have to.

At 14 you have no need for labels. Enjoy yourself, explore your sexuality, discover what you like and don't like. Eventually you might find a preference for women or men or both or whatever, that is up to you.

Please remember one thing if you are going to experiment with sex. At 14 do it with people your own age. Older partners can get into serious trouble having sex with minors even if you both consent and enjoy it.

Answer 10

that doesnt make you a bad person. you need to just accept yourself and not put a label on who you are. if you are bi, there is more to you than that, ya know? dont let that define you. and if you are, and anyone passes judgement on you, remember that they arent God. he is the only one that can judge and he loves you!