i already have a lawyer and she is lying about the situation I am devastated because i LOVE my 3 sons and i can not see them and can not call either the children she went to the movies with me and the 3 kids 5 days after she file for protective order. and she is lying that i told her i am going to shoot her and attempt to hit her. I will never do that because i know in texas HOUSTon you go automatically to jail. need help i still love my wife and i want to go back home w/ her and the 3 kids CAN SHE DROPPED IT or what can happen. I hope she will feel mercy and think about how much i love her and the 3 sons we have. ASAP HELP.
2007-05-16 09:10:03 · 11 answers · asked by nanuk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way to handle this is to notify your attorney and to start documenting everything, conversations, threats, invites; dates and times. Let your attorney know you are familiar with the law of being sent to jail for violence etc....you can't go to jail if there's no evidence. There has to be witnesses for them to take you in I believe. She sounds like's she lost her mind and feels like she can do and say what she wants. If you keep yourself sqeaky clean, and I'm sure you do anyway, there's probably not that much that she can do to you. If I were you, I'd want nothing to do with her. If she creates lies to get in you in trouble and has a restraining order on you, she has issues.
2007-05-16 09:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. To start with I know where your coming from.
2. Suck it up, and man up. Would you want your son's going through this or would you tell them to get out?
3. Better to get away from her now b/4 she calls the cops another time and your arrested.
My current wife and I have only had a couple fights in 13 yrs. and I was never threatened like that.
4. Get some proof you were at the movies, reciepts, someone you knew was there. See if any of the staff remember you. then give it to your atty.
5. If you weren't arrested the day she said it happened then don't trip. If you got a descent atty. it will be thrown out. then you can use that in court against her.
6.HANG ON TO YOUR SOCKS, IT'LL BE A LONG ROAD
7. Go for full custody, tape record everything, when you talk to her, keep a journal of everything.
8. Make a list of questions before you talk to your atty. as he's expensive, so make it count.
9. Make sure if your paying child support, tell him you want to claim at least 2 of the kids. 10.And If they go to college or move out the child support goes directly to them not your ex.
11. Make sure the child support is divided for each child, if you don't if one moves in with you you'll continue to pay the full amount of child support.
12. Loving your kids and staying in a bad marriage is just dumb, would you tell your sons to do the same thing? NO
Don't we lead by example?
2007-05-16 09:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hosed. Our judicial system is a total and complete failure when it comes to justice and protective orders. You are a man, she is a woman, you are automatically guilty.
Stay away from her. She is no good for you if she was willing to lie about you just so she could take one of these out on you. Do not call, do not write, do not have any contact with her at all. You can get visitations with your children arranged through your lawyer. Find a friends house to drop off and pick up the kids.
2007-05-16 09:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put in bluntly you are screwed. There is not a lot that you can do. Go to your lawyer. Tell him that she and your kids was with you 5 days after the order was filed, Maybe he can go to the judge with that. Good Luck
2007-05-18 08:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she can petition the courts to have the order lifted. Whether she lied or not she got a Judge to believe her and got the order issued. With the order present it wont be easy to work things out to get her to drop the order, without being arrested for violating the order. Next time hopefully youll watch what you say to her
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2016-11-04 03:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to seek not only a lawyers help but a therapists evaluation (they can be very good at convincing judges as to whether you did this thing your charged of or are capable of harming your wife or children). Good luck and God Bless.
2007-05-16 09:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your lawyer should be able to give you better advice than random people online. If he cannot, hire a better lawyer.
2007-05-16 09:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...sounds awful....ummm...yeah, whatever....by the way....I live in Houston too, any chance I can get a photo of your psycho-nuts wife, so I put her on my "woman never to date" list....
2007-05-16 09:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a piece of work. I am sure there are many reasons why you are in the position you are in. You made your own bead now lie in it.
2007-05-16 09:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Harry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋