What do you think is socially wrong in society that has contributed to the sex addictions? Do you think men that have had sex addictions can ever truly be trusted? What kind of experiences have you had related to this type of thing?
2007-05-16 08:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by Soul saviour 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, Societies are in crisis. The lack of values are wrecking the world. We need to look for what it really matters, however drugs,alcohol,divorces, disrespect, stupid advertisement, money is what really maters. This uncontrolled attitudes may lead to uncontrolled sexual experiences that at the end gives nothing , but emptiness.
2007-05-16 08:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by GAIO650107S17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your bf is young. My bf and I are both middle-aged and he still looks at it. He's got about 10 porn flicks and enough magazines to fill a medium sized closet. It doesn't really bother me, he is just a man. He doesn't even have a home pc, he's afraid of people stealing his personal info or something. He has access to a computer at work but I doubt he spends any time looking at porn because he's monitored in every way at his customer service job. I find the more sexual attention I give him the less his is interested in his love of porn. He is very sweet and treats me well too. Maybe you could come to some kind of compromise, say only watch videos together/confine him to magazines or whatever you think is acceptable. If I were you I wouldn't want him working in a porn shop. On the one hand, it would make him very good with customers since he's so knowledgeable about it and he would love the job, but on the other hand it would just encourage his interest in it. Men are horny and very visual, but when it becomes an obssession and you feel left out it's a problem in a relationship.
2016-05-19 22:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by ivana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Men are visual for one.
2. The porn is easily available now.
3. Freedom of speech etc is good but this allows porn to be o.k.
4. I don't know if a man can be trusted if they had or have a sex addiction.
From the 60's forward all hell has broke loose and so had the porn.
Its too bad women participate in this crap but $$$$ talks.
2007-05-16 08:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by ACME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything. I was one.
Rule #1. Women are beautiful and men want to be with them.
Rule #2. Sex is good.
He comes the bad part. When you mess up our design for a monogamous relationship things go wrong. Sex isn't supposed to be the number one thing in life, which our culture has thrown at us as it is supposed to be. You can come out of it. I was addicted to porn and sex, but I got saved so I got help from God.
2007-05-16 08:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by yaabro 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Coz porn is ace! Thank god for the internet!
EDIT* After reading the other users answers I see that most of them are from jealous wives (maybe ex wives/porn widdows) talking complete and utter rubbish! There are in fact quite alot of WOMEN who like porn and hive very high sex drives too!
Awwwww you a little bit upset coz ure hubby prefurs to beat off over a beautiful girl on the internet rather than have a bit with you? Thats a shame! lol
2007-05-16 08:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think that you are overblowing a mythical problem. I think the rate of "sex addiction" and "porn addiction" is very low. But maybe in your religious or political fervor for there to be a problem, you've convinced yourself that there IS a problem. Sex isn't the enemy, my friend, your beliefs are.
2007-05-16 08:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have different degrees of sexual arousal. I have had problems in relationships because everything turns me on. The slightest closeness from a woman is sensual to me so it turns me on. I'm 27 I've been this way since my early teens. The slighest intimacy puts me into a passionate mood. I feel the greatest intimacy through sexual contact.
2007-05-16 08:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by ahauntedhistory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I encourage everyone to get a good webfilter such as "K9 Web Protection." This is available at: http://www.k9webprotection.com/ Another good software to try is what is called accountability
software. This one will track questionable websites, and email them to a person, or persons, of
your choice. It is called x3Watch and is available at: http://www.xxxchurch.com/07/ and
http://x3watch.com/ These are ideas both for parents, and persons who are struggling with an
"addiction" to internet pornography.
2007-05-19 09:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that motivates a man is sex.
Think about it. That's why they want to be rich (arm candy), that's why they want a hot car (back seat action). Men will do anything for sex. It's their lifes ambition.
My husband loves porn so I know your frustration.
2007-05-16 08:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is no such thing as a sex addiction! i do not beleive in that, people who claim to suffer from that "disease" are using an excuse to cheat. it's like an abusive husband saying that he has a spasm and his wife's face is always in the way. he cant help it! sexual addiction doesnt exist because there is no drug coming into your system to make you addicted to something. people need to take responsibility for their own actions instead of inventing diseases!!
2007-05-16 08:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋