I have a 3 year realationship with a woman with kids , but she still lives with her husbant ,iven if they don't actually have a life together, meening they not intimate 2 years now or more.
She keeps saying she will divorce, and i believe she wants too.. but she keep delaying it and says she is frigtened for the kids, and she will do it , but can't do it yet caus it's not the right time, and than she always adds : "yet" (it's not the right time yet) I know we're very much in love , but she older than me by 13 years.. what the hell shall i do caus i can't live without her, and living with her but not really with is kinda driying me. Help ?
2007-05-16 08:26:18 · 8 answers · asked by r!7u4l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
does her husband know about you? or is she just dragging you along? I am divorced and I have kids. I came from a divorced family and My mom waited and i think it was harder to adjust. I left my husband early and I was luckily that my kids adjusted well. divorce is never easy but she should have thought of that before she started a relationship with you. You need to deal with it if you can't live with out her. Why are you putting you life on hold. there are lots of women out their.
2007-05-16 08:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by rachel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? Youre her little boy toy and shes enjoying it. If she really truly loved you then shed be with you right now. Shes got the best of both worlds. She knows you could never fill her husbands shoes and being younger you still have alot of living to do. So time has come to end this foolish affair and move on and find someone that is a whole lot less attached. Youll be alright.
2007-05-16 08:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen for the married woman/man's age old excuse. She has a loveless, sexless marriage. And what a boy toy you've been for her.....13 years younger and all. Wake up and smell the roses. She's not going to divorce her husband and the two of you will never be a couple. Find yourself a woman who's available and get out of her marriage.
2007-05-16 08:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't going to leave him for you. You are a toy to play with. She is an older woman that wants to feel young again. If she really wanted you, she would have left him by now. Go and live while your still young.
2007-05-16 08:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, there are children involved and she is doing the right thing by thinking of them. I think that if the two of you sit down and talk about what is and what could be might help the situation. Good Luck!
2007-05-16 09:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by sraymnd17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't live without her...what's wrong with you man....big wuss!!! Keep her on the side, booty call thing, and get yourself something nice and young and firm.....
2007-05-16 08:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say leave her until she is not commited to another man. SHE IS MARRIED!!!!!
2007-05-16 08:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by venedypics 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but this woman is using you.
2007-05-16 08:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by linda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋