Why do I always have bad romantic relationships with Scorpios?

Question

I know this isn't just "because they are girls" thing. I know this is a Scorpio thing. Why? Because I have been in several serious relationships in the past. Two of them were with Scorpios (the rest belonged to the air family). These two were the worst relationships I had. These two girls behaved and thought the same way: possessive, jealous, easily upset, unfair, vengeful, manipulative, and emotionally psychotic. It was always an intense battle between us. However, with the other non-Scorp relationships they were pretty good. Very little problems, little drama, just occasional arguing, and overall amicable relationship. In fact, the air sign people I dated were very fluid and easy to be with. That is why I know the problem is not "boy vs. girl" thing. It is a "Scorpios are whining vindictive jealous bad girls" thing.

I'm a Leo.

Answer 1

Since you are a leo you are probably flirtateous without realizing it and very social. Leos generally wouldn't get along with scorpios anyway because we are both fixed signs and because of that extremly stubborn. Leos are supposed to get along the best with fire and air signs because they share similar personalities, which is why earth and water go together the best.

Scorpios get jealous because we think that you are going to cheat on us and are very suspicious about it; as well as being naturally introverted (depending on the signs in the birth chart). I usually don't show the negative traits unless I feel that someone has betrayed me or hurt me very badly and that is when I will lash out. There are a lot of scorpios that are interested in the welfare of others, which is why they are drawn to medical occupations and sexually often are interested in making sure the other person gets what they want and is pleased. Water signs are generally very sensitive and the most empathetic, but scorpios try to hide it the most and when they get hurt become sarcastic and bitter. We don't like sharing our feelings very much because it is just another way for people to hurt us. I have read that scorpios go through a lot of trauma in their lives and that could be another reason why we are so protective of ourselves. Some scorpios can suffer with depression (like many water signs), which makes them even more sensitive to your actions. Remember that was only two of them and there are a lot of other scorpios out there and we aren't all alike. Maybe next time you will get a better one :)




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Leo ♥ Scorpio

Scorpio natives are prone to dissect everyone and everything that happens to fall beneath their watchful eyes. However, it is also in the nature of this Sign to be highly insulted should any partner attempt to do the same thing with the Scorpio personality. Leo individuals have an open manner of speaking but seldom reveal everything about themselves. These are souls who like to hold back certain things, which usually results in the Scorpio mate becoming indignant...although he or she will be equally as secretive (or even more so) and refuse to fully open up under any circumstances. In essence, those ruled by Scorpio have a difficult time in finding a suitable partner from any Zodiac Sign due to the overly-demanding and overbearing ways which are inherent in these natives. Scorpio expects total obedience and an absorbtion in his or her work and life...often to the suppression of Leo's personal desires. This leads to the Leo partner experiencing much unhappiness and bitterness. Scorpio will doubtless dictate to Leo how the finances may be spent, but will have no qualms in spending money for items that are personally wanted. It is indeed true that Leo is somewhat notorious for being extravagent, but Scorpio will demand that any such cash outlays first be "cleared" with him or her. Scorpio natives are somewhat infamous for being overly active in the arena of physical intimacy, so this aspect of the relationship may compensate the Leo partner for many other things...but this is also an area where the Leo partner is likely to be expected to give way to the wishes of Scorpio and, when it is noticed by the Leo partner that Scorpio is reluctant to reciprocate, Leo will doubtless begin to feel hurt and rejected. In short, this will be a rather storm-tossed union at best.

The Leo/Scorpio relationship tends to result in a dynamic and intense union, with each partner normally being well-tuned to the needs of the other. Scorpio demands respect and harbors a deep desire to be wanted, while Leo needs adoration and has to be constantly complimented. Both individuals are extremely loyal and often possessive of one another, but each is ably equipped to provide what the other needs while still enjoying the strengths possessed by his or her partner. Leo natives relish comfort and luxury, frequently doing things on a very grand scale and prone to be flamboyant. Scorpio is appreciative of these traits and usually quite happy to be audience Leo requires, provided there is equality in the relationship. Those governed by Leo tend to shine more brightly and more insistently than any other Sign of the Zodiac, eventually envolving into the living and breathing manifestation of magnificence and luxury. Conversely, Scorpio shies away from the limelight, but likes to control the mechanics. Thus, since both Leo and Scorpio are so determined, this pair will need to work very hard in order to understand and accept one another.

Leo is ruled by the Sun and Scorpio is ruled by the Planet Pluto, with a secondary influence from the Planet Mars (which presided over Scorpio prior to the discovery of Pluto). The Sun is concerned with ego and self, radiating warmth and light. Indeed, those governed by Leo emit this type of zeal and enthusiasm. Mars is concerned with war, brashness and battle, while Pluto is the governing factor related to Scorpio's inner dialogue. Pluto influences the idea of regeneration and rebirthing, which tends to be a current theme in the life of those ruled by Scorpio. Together, this abundance of male energy causes both Signs to lighten their conflicts and assist one another. The Sun is representative of life...Mars and Pluto represent ambition and the unconscious. Provided each partner here can take the time to truly understand the other on a deep level, then the romance could prove to be positive and carry high expectations. Leo is governed by the element of Fire while Scorpio is governed by the element of Water. Leo demands the freedom to mingle and Scorpio possesses a chameleon-type personality. Both Signs desire to lead, but in different ways. Much like the elements that influence them, this pair has the ability to cancel each other out and at times, this relationship may not be harmonious. However, both partners are aware that petty disputes are merely a distraction. As long as egos can be kept at bay and the union given top priority, most conflicts between these two can generally be resolved. Leo and Scorpio are both Fixed in quality. Hence, each partner here may well be rigid, opinionated and resistant to change with a tendency to be persistent when working toward personal goals. Once natives of Leo have a plan, then they will stick to it until they get what they want. Scorpio subjects are of the same mindset. This couple will share a mutual reluctance to change, each preferring a stable and steady route...but, if their ideas are dissimilar, they may find themselves in a never-ending cycle of struggles. Scorpio natives refuse to budge, believing such to be an indication of weakness. This often leads to Leo perceiving his or her Scorpio partner as being overly self-righteous. If this pair can understand that they are on the same side in the larger scheme of things, then it will be much easier for them to remain productive. Perhaps the best aspect of a Leo/Scorpio match is the shared sense of dedication each will have for the other and for the projects in which they engage. Both Signs here possess exceedingly powerful...yet strategically different...personalities. Perceived as a strong union by others, there is undoubtedly a mutual dedication to the fulfillment of personal desires.

In essence, this combination can make for a good match if there is an amicable joining of these two shining personalties. There is much in common here, particularly if the Leo individual is female and the Scorpio individual a male. Still, jealousy will play a major role in relationship conflicts and any success for happiness and longevity will depend on many factors.

(http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/leolovecomp.html)

Answer 2

I finally see you are saying why you don't like the scorpios for...

I find people just have issues with other signs sometimes and it can't be helped... There may be a scorpio out there you may like but It would probably be hard to find (as I find it all depends upon the sun,moon,rising ,etc. of the person as some don't act their sign)

What's so funny is I am great friends with many leos whereas I usually have issues in my life with aquarius people because they are completely opposite of me, yet one of my good friends is one (and I have a few others I am friends with also), yet one born only 3 days later (same year and all) from my good friend, I battle with constantly...

I think you have just found that you and scorpios don't get along like I have with aquariuns unfortunately

Answer 3

Scorpios are crazy. They do it intentially but they are osbessive, controlling, jealous, secretive, and pretty powerful. I know a lot of Scorpios and they are all a lot alike. You could stay away from Scorpios altogether and maybe you will be happier and meet a wonderful girl who is not all of the above. Also, some Scorpios do not get along with certain signs like Aries is one for sure. Hopefully you're not an Aries because it will be really good or really bad at times. Good luck.

Answer 4

Because you think you're the best thing since sliced bread. Scorpio's don't like that. They will blow their own horn every now and again, but they have an ability to be modest. You - yourself personally - don't.

Strangely enough I met another Leo - coincidentally - who thought himself to be the best thing since sliced bread as well. I hate him; and so does everyone else, no matter which sign they are.

You'll always have bad relationships with Scorpio women for that reason. Learn a bit of modesty and you might manage to keep one of those Scorpio girlfriends. If you're not willing to teach yourself some modesty chances are the Scorpio will do that for you, or just look for a Taurus - they like to spoil and worship their lovers.

Answer 5

They can be completely different from you and some are really hard to get along with. Scorpio's have a complex nature.

Answer 6

siegfried i say it depends .....my advice is get to know the girl first as a leo you should find out what they are all about in the first place. then think of making a relationship with this person. you sound like a very intelligent person. this could be the reason why your attracted to air signs. or learn how to read the entire chart & go by that. am sure you will find some one who is more compatible with you. trust me when its true love it wont hurt.

Answer 7

What is your sign? You must not of been a good boyfriend to your Scorpios. I'm a Scorpio and I can be all those things but only when I'm being mistreated. We don't put up with much bull s h i t.

Answer 8

now you know and you will learn from that and not make the same mistake again.
I knew one of scorpio girl and guy.
the guy was controlling and like to tell people what to do and he don't let other people to tell him what to do so I fiund it confusing.
the girl was always talking about whatever good things she was having in her life and just so she doesn't feel jealous of others, the thing was that on cared about what she had or didn't have.
My step.father is one of them, every controlling and lazy, he want people to do things for him even if he knows how to.

Well what is your Sign?

Answer 9

scorpios are as you've described them but when a scorpio loves he\she loves for all time with all body and heart.but if u hurt them then run for you're live.they are also faithful.trust me i know.I'm a leo married to a scorpio and it's a war but if u overcome the problems it could be ...and they lived happily ever after...nothing could ever break them apart

Answer 10

Scorpios (apparently) have tendencies to lash out quite maliciously. Tragic.

Answer 11

hi,

and u did not ask urself why u did not stop thinking abt scorpio girls .??

bcoz they're unforgetable ;-)

try another sign to flirt with...if u don't like scorpio..they're a little bit difficult