I want to make a move to this guy..I really like him....he';s showing signs that he like me too... buit what if when i make the first move, he's not into me? how can i make a first move that will minimally or will not change our relationship as friends?
2007-05-16 06:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by vkrum1900 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You could always get drunk, then ask, then blame the alcohol.
People have done the drunk sex for thousands of years, I'm sure the drunk conversations as well, somehow being drunk seems like a plausible excuse to make an *** of yourself, so he won't be so put off in the end.
2007-05-16 08:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed, there are no guarantees.
You'll just have to decide when to make that first move and accept whatever the results are or hope he decides to make the first move.
2007-05-16 13:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you want to risk the friendship over sex. If you don't want to lose the friendship,then leave things alone. If it was meant to happen,it will happen. Lovers come and go,but friends are harder to come by. Good luck
2007-05-16 14:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance. if he's feeling the same way then hooray, if not then oh well at least you know. and i dont know about you but i'd rather live knowing it wouldnt happen cos he wasent into it rather then living always wondering what if..and good luck to you! =)
2007-05-16 13:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by o0hhdangletzbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk so that you can blame your advances on the alcohol if he does not feel the same way
2007-05-16 13:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by mikehunt29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you will just have to say something or nothing will happen.
2007-05-16 13:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by ambientdiscord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl and youll be better off
2007-05-16 13:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by BravesWings 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him what you just said...show him this question.
2007-05-16 14:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees, my friend.
2007-05-16 13:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋