I'm 20 yrs old and me and my boyfriend have been ttc for 3 months with no luck...we're both healthy...whats up

Question

We have tried everything the positions the times using the calendar and we cant seem to get it right

we are engaged and getting married in a month and we both have good high paying jobs and our on house 4 those who want 2 critisize the fact we're young and not married YET!!!

oops...own house

and im done with college

Answer 1

it takes time. be patient it will happen dont stress that can have an effect on you i have been trying since feb1

Answer 2

I would first sit back and think to yourself, are you BOTH actually ready? How long have you been together? If you both are serious about having a child I would think about marriage first. I am 23 and My husband and i tried to conceive for 3 years (we were dating) then we decided to get married and a few weeks before the wedding we found out we were going to have a baby. Seriously if you guys are serious about family I would get married. But if that is just not an option. What worked for me was honestly..... Prenatal Vitamins. We tried EVERYTHING from him to me pills, ovulate, and then some but the one thing that worked FOR US anyways was prenatal try it. they are over the counter and cheaper than the prescription. And if not talk to your doctor and they might be able to help you. You have to be completely healthy with the right amount of vitamins/nutrients to make enough for two.

Answer 3

hassle-free if he tells you that he needs out yet he won't be able to and that i mean how are you able to be in touch with somebody and have toddlers together with her for 22yrs this shows that he isn't any longer an exceedingly in charge form of individual and that i'm sorry to assert this yet what makes you think of he's severe approximately you in basic terms via fact he had a weigh down on you via fact you have been youthful would not propose that he needs to spend something of his life with you he would not look like the committing form of guy . He needs a no strings related form of relationship with you for old cases sake. What do you think of will take place when you adult adult males had intercourse, he will needless to say flow returned to his lady buddy and he will give up calling you and commence bobbing up with this excuses which you knew he advance into in touch wadawada and you would be left with a broken coronary heart and experience used so get out mutually as you nevertheless can. this is the two you proceed and face the implications or in basic terms discover somebody else enable via gones be bygones.

Answer 4

Three months is really not that long to be trying. While you are waiting though, take care of some big things, like getting married and such. You will be happier if that is done before you get pregnant, and you'll feel a lot less stressed about it since you won't have to think of what last name you are going to give the baby.

Answer 5

Lets see, Your 20, unmarried, that means no LEGAL commitment from the father of the potential child you are trying to make. ARE YOU CRAZY????

Think into the future one or two years, you get pregnant, the two of you learn the stress of having a baby. He quits and runs, trust me odds are that he will.

There you are, no serious education to support this baby, you had to have. He may or may not help financially. You could be stuck with the total responsibility for the next 20 YEARS OF RAISING YOUR BABY.

Please for your sake and your childs sake. Get some sort of education to earn a living independent of anyone else.

Then if you absolutely have to have a baby you will have a way to independently support that child.

Raising a child is the biggest job you will ever have in your entire life. You absolutely MUST be ready for it.

Please, step back, go to school, if this boy friend is still serious, and is willing to make a legal commitment to be there for you and be your partner in raising your children, FABULOUS. But wait until you are 23 to 25 before you rush into parenthood. It is financially and personally exhausting.

Do you have $200. every month to spend on a baby and it becomes MUCH more expensive when they go to school and child care. My grandaughters child care runs during school $500.00 per month and summers it is about $750.00 per month. CAN YOU DO THIS?????????

Go to the store and price out a case of formula and a case of diapers, the cost of one pediatricians appointment. Go to a store and price out a crib, mattress, stroller, carrier, car seat, just the basics. You will be amazed. Babies are UNBELIEVABLY EXPENSIVE.

THINK THIS OVER THOROUGHLY AND STAY ON BIRTH CONTROL WHILE YOU DO IT. Babies are wonderful, but the stress they bring is huge, so please be patient.

If you are counting you your parents to step up for you , remember parents are just getting older and more tired. They are planning on being free to live their own lives. So be independent. Plan to Stand on your own two feet, do not rely on everyone else.

THINK BEFORE YOU CONCEIVE.

Answer 6

Maybe it is a sign. Coming from someone who was married at 20, now divorced, I think that you should maybe wait. My ex-husband and I were ttc for two years before we got divorced. I am glad we didn't. At 20 you just do now know what you want for the rest of your life. Wait until you get married.

Answer 7

Nothing may be up at all.
I would use an ovulation predictor kit, and keep trying.
It took me 7 months to get pregnant, and I timed everything from month one!

Answer 8

My advice is if you aren't married don't have kids yet. Things could change a year from now and the welfare system will be left to support you and your child!

Answer 9

When the time is right it will happen. You probably just need to relax forget about it for a month and try again.

Answer 10

your trying to much just let it happen and it will happen