2007-05-16 05:43:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If he is my boyfriend .. he is obviously gay.
That was easy.
2007-05-16 05:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
*is there a certain body part on WOMEN he is attracted to...everyman has one or a certain type of female (blonde hair, short female, green eyes, large knees something) if not something is wrong
* does he get excited (you know what I mean) when he sees a type of woman or you or anything sexual?
* not being intimate does not mean he is gay but when you two are close does he get excited? at all?
* does he have male friends who are gay?
* does he have a male friend who is glued to him at the hip?
* does he have phone numbers in his pants or wallet; call them, are they all male?
* has he ever looked at a man? I mean like you were walking and he saw one and he kind of looked at him maybe he caught you looking at him and put his eyes straight ahead?
* is he a little cold? I mean, not just passion, I mean is he a person who just seems cold to you or women in general?
* does he dress one way around you and another way when he goes out (like designer labels)?
* does he take very very particular care of himself (like pedicures and making sure his hair lays down or is cut a certain way?
* is he obsessed with his body or appearance?
Oh Lord I could tell if I saw him. I have worked with so many gay men over the years and the last 10 I worked with a lot of them who were hiding it (closeted? I believe is the term) and I knew for sure (they told me) but they dated etc.
Watch him very very carefully before you ask him.
And let me tell you something, if you feel something is wrong then it probably is.
And even if he is very religious, he should still have some physical passion for you. Does he get "hard" when you hug him.
Watch out.
2007-05-17 06:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by soulflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriends been with me for over a year now so I am more then positive that he's gay
2007-05-16 06:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he likes other guys in a sexual way. If he likes Coldplay. If he starts discussing manicures and pedicures with you. If he starts wearing pink and popping his collar. If he wears sandals or flip-flops. If he dyes his hair. If he goes tanning. If he shaves his armpits. If you catch him watching QVC or the Oxygen channel.
2007-05-16 05:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he acts extremely homophobic, he's probably gay. The ones with the hangups have the most to hide, in my experience.
2007-05-16 05:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by gopher646 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get him to makeout if he refuses or does it halfass--he's deff gay, no guy in the right mind would just refuse a tongue wrestling contest.
2007-05-16 05:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, he is dating another guy! That's how I know my boyfriend is gay. :)
2007-05-16 05:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jyse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well give us some examples of what he does that makes u ask that and we'll say if he sounds gay or if its just that he's in touch with his feminine side there are alot of guys like that...
2007-05-16 05:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by ~*The Show Must Go On*~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He acts homophobic, but you see him look at guys the way straight guys look down your shirt, but he may be comparing, so its always good to ask, if so still have the feeling, then i suggest you leave him.
2007-05-16 05:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Zoila 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he starts every sentence with "As a gay person living in today's society, I..."
2007-05-16 05:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Bill W 【ツ】 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Does he look at guys to much and ignores u?
Small little things like that..... or u could just ask him!
2007-05-16 05:47:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋