I don't have a problem with his sexuality but I have Christian friends who are put off from visiting me. They say it wouldn't be such a problem if he "Came out" as he wouldn't be lying to himself or some junk like that. Any suggestions?
Regards
Willman
2007-05-16 05:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by Victorpoprocks 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think he might be scared of what people might think about him. He may not know where you stand on this issue. You could bring up the subject like I didn't know so and so was gay. I wish they would have told me because I don't see anything wrong with it. If he truly is gay and not in denial he will most likely guide the conversation to himself. If he doesn't think he is gay and won't admit it then at least when he figures it out he knows where you stand. As for your other friends it really is none of their business and he is not harming anybody by keeping it to himself so they need to get over themselves.
2007-05-16 05:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
... i have nothing against gay people at all but i would seriously find a new roomate.. that is beyond the line! I wouldn't confront him unless he demands an answer. it sounds like he could be a major creep.. not to scare you but i would even go as far as getting a restraining order just incase.
2016-05-19 21:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide what you can live with and talk with your room mate, if you two are good enough friends to live under the same roof and share costs I would think this would be something the two of you would be able to talk about and work out with no problem. Your friends don't live there the two of you do!
2007-05-16 05:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at it this way....
Should he confront you about you NOT being gay?
Your answer is most likely "No".
So leave him alone and let him live his life. If you can't handle it (and quit putting it all on your friends), perhaps you should move out.
2007-05-16 05:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by masterplanner04 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
These friends are simply homophobic and judgmental. "Coming out" would do nothing. They'd simply think up some other reason they couldn't come over.
If they think it is a sin, how come they aren't avoiding ALL sinners (ALL people)? See how wrong their reasoning is? Do they avoid people who have premarital sex?
Talk to them and explain that they are being judgmental and nonChristian because of this.
2007-05-16 05:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You should confront the visitors. If they leave him alone he will not bother them. He is a person, a human who deserves privacy
2007-05-16 06:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
who cares if he's out of not? your christian friends need to get a life and get over it. who cares he is gay or straight. he is still the same guy regardless. they probably just want to know so they can hook him up with their priest, so the priest will leave them alone.
2007-05-16 05:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
you shouldnt "confront" him on it..
and whether he is or isnt gay shouldnt matter to people that dont even live there..nor to you..if he's not violating you in anyway with his potential gayness..
for them to say they'd be okay with him being gay if he were gay.. if only he'd admit it...BUT.. him being only presumably gay..keeps them from visiting you ..is retarded as hell.
2007-05-16 05:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
confront your friends. And if he hasn't come out how do you even know he is gay?
2007-05-16 05:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by dominique 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's NO ONE's BUSINESS but his own!!
It's not your business and certainly NOT your friends' business. (FYI: Christians aren't supposed to JUDGE OTHERS....how "Christian" are these friends of yours if they are assuming and judging your roommate?)
If they are put off, that's really their problem.
No, you should NOT confront him about his sexuality...that is just plain rude.
2007-05-16 05:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋