My girlfriend REALLY wants another baby but I do not want another one right now! could she poke holes in the condoms to get pregnant?? would I notice them?? I try and check them without her noticeing (I don't want her to think I dont trust her)... OR (sorry it sounds REALLY gross but she wants a baby so bad I wouldn't put anything past her) after having sex could she take the condoms out of the trash and try and put the *** inside her or would that not work?? sorry it sounds really disgusting but like I said she wants another baby so bad I wouldn't be surprised if she did something like that. is there any other ways she could trick me into getting her pregnant?? ( I want to be prepared for any other tricks she might have up her sleeve)
thank you so much for your time and I'm sorry that it sounds gross but I need to know. thank you
2007-05-16 05:28:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
YES!! she could get pregnant by poking holes in the condoms and you probably wouldn't notice... she could also take the condom out of the trash and put the "juice" inside her but most condoms have spermacide in them and that kills the sperm... so it wouldn't be easy for her to get pregnant those ways but it is possible! I would stop sleeping with her or bring your own condoms that she can't get a hold of.
2007-05-17 05:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course she could do any of those things--and many more. And if you two don't trust each other more than that, then I certainly question whether you two are capable of the responsibilities of additional children. I fear for the one you have now, given the level of mistrust. Condoms--even when not punctured--do not offer 100% protection. Sperm are pretty sneaky little things, and can get around where you think not. Conversely, that is unlikely. Usually there is a spermicide (designed to kill the sperm) also used with a condom. But the really easiest way of getting pregnant is just to find another male willing to contribute sperm.
If you can't trust her to not "poke a hole" in a condom, I'm not sure you can trust her not to allow another male to "poke" her.
You need to talk to each other, openly, honestly, and candidly. Tell her why you fear her behavior, and why you don't want another child right now. Figure out a time-table when another child will work for your family. And work to keep the family together before such lack of trust destroys it, and really causes damage. Another baby in your family would not be as devastating as the existing baby losing the security of a loving mother and a loving father. You've got a lot to work out. Seek counselling if you two can't handle this issue together.
2007-05-16 05:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lorenzo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend loves you she should respect your wishes. It is hard having kids and if you aren't ready for another one then she needs to understand that. Yes she can poke holes in the condom and yes she can get pregnant by doing that. I am pretty sure that you would notice if there was a hole in the condom. Look if you cant trust her then you need to tell her that, it doesn't sound like a real healthy relationship to me if your mate goes behind your back and you cant trust her having children is a BIG responsibility! You need to sit down and talk to her about it and until then DONT HAVE SEX with her. Good luck
2007-05-16 05:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by 3peas in a pod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sperm dies when it reaches air. So it's unlikely for her to be able to take the condom out of the trash and insert the juice. Maybe you should sit down with her and let her know how you feel about having another baby right now. She needs to take your feelings into consideration as well. Tell her you aren't ready and maybe a few months down the road you will be willing to talk about it again. The thing is you should be able to trust her. If you can't, than you shouldn't be having sex with her. I understand wanting a baby, my fiance and I are trying right now, BUT I had to wait until he was on board with the whole thing to come off my birth control. I want him to be excited and happy and by my side when it happens, not questioning if I missed a pill on purpose or poked holes in a condom. You don't trust her! You shouldn't be having sex with someone you don't trust.
2007-05-16 05:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Chavahleah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is going to be that dishonest to you then then both of you need to sit down if front of a professional mediator and get to the bottom of why she is so desperate to have another baby right now. If the condom wrapper is still intact before you open it then chances are she did not mess with it just don't use any condoms that has been taken out of the wrapper b4 YOU open them would be my advice also look at the out side wrapper in the light to see if there are any pin holes anywhere even the seams. she can do something as gross as squeeze the semen into her vagina without you knowing she could also use a turkey baster to do this. trust is vital to any relationship and if that is taken away then who can you trust.
2007-05-16 05:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rowan Red Tail Hawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, yes she could, first word of advice, hide the condoms or have a seperate stash of them. You might be able to tell but more than likely you would notice if the condom broke or after you finish, and is leaking. Second, after you are done I am not 100% positive if she could take the used condom and get pregnant, but to be on the safe side, put water in it and empty it in toilet and flush. Throw condom away after. The only other trick she could use (that I can think of ) is to "tell" you she is on birth control and not to use a condom. Hope I helped.
~Amanda~
2007-05-16 05:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a slim chance that she could get pregnant with putting holes in condoms but it has happened. As far as taking them out of the garbage and putting the sperm inside her that is a fairly high chance that she could get pregnant. You should start using the ones with spermicide that way it would be a slim chance because it would kill some of the sperm.
2007-05-16 05:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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after sex-put a pillow under your butt or prop your feet up on the wall so your pelvis is tilted
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workout, even if its just a 20 minute walk a day, be active.
2016-02-08 11:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes everything you've said is possible. she can put holes in them without you seing them. to avoid that you can bring your condom to bed with you open it yourself and and put it on. she can still take you sperm and go to the bathroom and put it inside of her.sperm lives for up to 5 days on air surface. ( i know i work at a sperm bank) the best thing to do is make her get the depot shot. I say the shot because it is guaranteed for 3 months. she can always said she took her pills but really took an asprin(trust me I know my cousin did it to her man). and yes it does sound like you don't trust her because you are on here asking the quetion.
2007-05-16 05:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ethan's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she could and i don't think you would notice and the condom in the garbage she could and that would work but it is really gross so i hope she don't do that. if she wants a baby so bad maybe you should love her enough to give her what she wants the most . also don't flush condoms its very bad for your septic tank
2007-05-16 05:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋