I was talking with my boyfriend on the phone and started making love to myself, when we finished talking I noticed a red stain on my bed sheets, sorta looks like menstruation stains, what could it be, should I be worried?? please help
2007-05-16 05:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i'm not in my period and im a virgin
2007-05-16 05:20:13 · update #1
just an FYI - you cannot break your hymen by fingering yourself.
Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It’s a mucous membrane that is part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It’s located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. You may or may not have one, most females do. The hymen is not an indicator of virginity; a girl is a virgin until she has been penetrated by a penis.
The hymen is named after the Greek God Hymenaeus - the God of marriage and weddings, FYI.
During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina at all. The thin layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth, forming the hymen. The size and shape of this opening (or openings) varies greatly from person to person.
Sometimes this formation of an opening does not occur, resulting in an imperforated hymen (it lacks the more common opening). Some females have no hymen at birth at all, since the tissue divided completely while they were still in the womb.
Many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.*
Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
2007-05-22 09:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you have never been penetrated you probably broke your hymen - don't worry. If it is close to your period this could just be some natural spotting. Use cold water and soap to remove the stain and don't worry unless you are in pain. Good Luck!
2007-05-16 12:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you may have gotten a little carried away and scratched yourself. I wouldnt worry, use club soda on the stain, and if you are a little sore down there you know to take it a little easier next time
2007-05-23 20:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by debbie_t68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have torn your hymen, that can cause bleeding. If you weren't lubricated then friction can cause tiny tears that will bleed. Or it's possible that you just accidentally scratched the inside of your vagina. Either of these are completely normal. Just be careful, you don't want to cause an infection in there.
2007-05-16 12:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing to fret about. have you ever used a tampon? there is this thin skin accross your vaginal opening, it is called a hymen. it is the cause of the "pain" that most women feel their first time. you may have ruptured that membrain. not a big deal, when you are aroused it is the best time to have it go. it will make your first time less painful and hey, if you feel fine you probably didn't "hurt" anything. you can't break it.
2007-05-24 09:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by T A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have scratched yourself or got a little rough without noticing it. Don't worry about it
2007-05-16 12:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont be worried. if you are a virgin then thats what happens
2007-05-23 12:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by T Rom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probally just started your period
2007-05-16 12:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by La Blue Eyed Chula 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the people saying that you probably broke your hymen. Don't worry about it.
2007-05-16 12:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
did you get your period?
2007-05-16 12:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋