y wen u love some they lie to make them self-es sound better?

Answer 1

Its not everyone.... thats actual a ego/pride survival techique. It comes about mostly due to his inablility to think he is worth anything or a "good" person. So he figures you feel the same way about him and wants to correct that in your mind, even if he can't do it in his. Dangerous, but its your life..... I'd personally stay away from a charater like that because chances are you don't know the real reason he hates himself so much, and theres a chance that finding out could hurt you much, but you need to, inorder to have a healthy relationship with him.... good luck