What do you think of someone who gets a loan to buy a bigger boat, but won't pay someone ₤1500 to tidy up and groom 3 acre land. (he says it's too much money). He keeps saying he's going to work to work on it, but never does.
2007-05-16 04:22:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
garden!
2007-05-16 04:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has his priorities screwed up. Are the boat and the land in the same state/place? Perhaps he goes for the boat for instant gratification and to show off to friends and neighbors what a big shot he may think he is. Is the land a second home or investment property in a different state that he doesn't have to look at on a daily basis?
2007-05-16 19:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by oceansquirt64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are really particular about someone else working on their land, even though they don't want to do it themselves. I'd lay down the law and say, "Either YOU do it, or I'm hiring someone to do it! If YOU do it, you can have your boat, if not, the money goes to a landscaping company and NO boat!"
I wish you well!
2007-05-16 11:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he would rather work on his boat, and the garden is not a priority. See if you can get him to commit to a day and time to work on the garden. That works with my hubby, who won't pay someone to do what he can do, eventually.
2007-05-16 11:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by M S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you leave it be he has the money? he get the boat you want the garden done you get the money and get to haveing fun
i get what i can i like and my husband can do the same
he save for it i save for what i want
it is kinda like this i give up smoking and still take out the same amount as if i was only it went in to saving well after 3 years i had a good amount i want to take a trip
he want to smoke and spend his money on them so when it came time for my trip he said where are we going lol
i said you burnt up your and i am the one who saved for the trip and see i am the only one going
so do it like that save and work for what you want
2007-05-16 11:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should put the money towards a riding lawnmower that way he gets a new toy and he can do the work. So you do not have to hire someone to come and do it everytime.
Tell him if he doesn't want to take care of his property that you want to get something smaller so you can atleast take care of it if he cant.
2007-05-16 12:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't pay the money cause cleaning the garden isn't his priority right now, it's yours. He needs to get his priority's straight.
2007-05-16 11:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey uh..
boat can be on water...
3 acre land, by winter all grass will be dead anyways
i'd get the boat too if i was him
2007-05-16 11:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it sounds EXACTLY like my husband
2007-05-16 11:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, he is a w@g
2007-05-16 11:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋