i do struggle with it....... i tried not to have the thinking but the thinking always go to my mind....please advise..i need help
2007-05-16 03:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i feel like commit sucide sometime...zz
2007-05-16 04:09:16 · update #1
btw is common***
2007-05-16 04:15:34 · update #2
Do you mean *common*?If so many people in their teens do experiment within the same sex, and it is just a part of their sexual awakening.. (Darn hormones). Out of those there were people who are being awakened to whether they are truly same sex oriented or not. It is truly impossible to tell you whether or not you are Gay. You have to examine that within yourself. Are you attracted to both women and men? Bisexual. Only women, Lesbian etc. take a closer look at your actions and attitudes towards things and that will help you to further yourself along this path of self discovery. It is a difficult time but whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. :) Good luck hun and remember you do grow up, and those feelings do get easier to handle, I promise. Hormones at that age are ridiculous. lol Its a bad time for most people.
2007-05-16 04:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by *jen* 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy, now. This isn't a joking matter. You're struggling, that's not good. You need to understand everything, you may also end up needing antidepressants.
Too many people, especially young people are depressed from the struggle, some commit suicide, get help so it doesn't happen to you. I don't care if you accept your sexuality or not, but suicide is nothing to joke about. Get help now!
I wish I could help further but I cannot, nothing I can say can stop your turmoil right now.
But realize that you are not alone, a lot of LGBT people struggle with it as teens, especially in certain parts of the world. You are not alone in your thoughts, and you are not alone in your struggle.
But do not ever EVER let it take you down, that's not fair to anyone.
2007-05-16 04:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Luis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pepsi...relax and stop worrying..you will be what you are going to be...nothing wrong with either gay or straight, it is just how we are...You are over thinking the issue...why not let time take its course and see what happens. Don't fall for the crap you hear about being "queer", being anything....IF you are gay, almost all the really happy people I know are Gay. If you are Striaght, I know many happy straights. The striaghts that I know have NO problem with gays...Gays do not threaten Straights. Let it flow, dude...just let it happen. Good luck and put down the thoughts of suicide...all that will do is make your Mom and Dad's lives very miserable for the rest of theirs....and that is not what you want to do. Email me if you have questions, etc....I am here to help you. Goldwing
2007-05-16 04:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Command? By who?
Most teenagers are not homosexual. - Granted, many do experiment with the same sex but that is part of growing up.
Contrary to some religious types say - homosexuality is not a choice but genetically driven. If there is a choice it is how a person acts on what genetics have given him or her .
2007-05-16 04:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1-800-SUICIDE
NEVER TAKE YOUR OWN LIFE!! IT's NEVER WORTH IT!
Get some counceling NOW.
These are Chicago Area numbers, but I'm sure they can help you find what you may need in your area:
LGBT Crisis Hotline
773.871.CARE
773.871.2273
24-Hours every day
IL HIV/AIDS/STD Hotline
1.800.AID.AIDS
1.800.243.2437
1.800.782.0423 (TTY)
8 am to 10 pm every day
2007-05-16 04:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please get help.
i too struggled with depression due to my sexuality. the best thing i ever did was find a therapist and get put on medication. i wish you the best of luck. and hope that you know...it's ok.
2007-05-16 04:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by jillybean2213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋