them? (And forget about them !) Should I clean the house or just let it go?
2007-05-16 01:52:31 · 26 answers · asked by Amy E 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have cleaned since 6:10 am this morning! Some days I just dont want to clean~ do you think that is the wrong way to feel? I am wore out! All I did was sit on the bed and cry~ all day Monday! What do you think is wrong with me? I just dont want to clean!
2007-05-16 01:54:18 · update #1
Is that crazy or normal way to feel! I just DONT WANT TO CLEAN ANY MORE! I think I need a house keeper to give me a break for a few weeks!
2007-05-16 01:56:04 · update #2
overwelmed.....maybe depressed...do what you can...a little at a time.... you'll get there..... don't stress.......
2007-05-16 01:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
... you can leave them for a bit longer to see if anybody notices they have no clean laundry and the house is starting to pong a bit! Howevr, in my experience - you will go wash them yourself soon enough as you will get fed up of looking at them!
I'm a Mom of 3 little ones, I work full time and have a Husband who works away for half of the week. Most of the time, I cope ok, although I'm constantly tiered! But today - today I have taken a sickie from work, dropped the kids at the childminders and the oldest at school - advising I am in meetings all day so call me mobile if they need me. I had breakfast - went back to bed at 9.30, got up at 12.30 - had a bit of lunch, went back to bed and got up about an hour ago to do a few chores.
I've now popped on-line to check e-mail amongst other things whilst I am running a lovely hot bath. I will then leave at 5 to go collect my kids - just like a work day, I will feel totally relaxed and calm and nobody will ever know!!!!
Hubby is back today and will rush round after the kids being as I have been alone since Sunday tea - so I'll have a relaxing evening too.
In summary - be smart, play them at their own game and escape every now and again, will do you the world of good!!!
2007-05-16 11:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by mommy of 6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
I hate laundry and housecleaning, and I live mostly by myself except when my cousing pops in a couple of days a week.
I feel so badly for you.
Where I live it's a nice day. If it's nice where you are, go out even if it's just for a walk.
Isn't there a neighborhood kid you could pay to help you? When I was growing up, I babysat for a family with six kids and the mother would have me come in one day a week to help with the laundry and iron what needed to be done. I needed the money so I did it. I think that's why I hate housecleaning so much. After I was done at her house, I returned home to my family of seven where we lived in a completely disshelved mess.
Good luck. If I could help, I would.
2007-05-16 09:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sometimes..... I get that way! Especially when the Vacuum breaks down for the 100th time. I have taken that vacuum apart and put it back together so much... I can do it in my sleep! But if I don't do no one else will, so I do it again and again and again. It is repetitive but I keep going. Amy all I have is me and my kids that's it. My ex is totally not involved and he hasn't for along time! You are blessed that your husband is still with you. It is not easy to play Mom and Dad to the 3 kids that I have.
2007-05-16 09:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a vacation. You need to talk to yopur husband and explain how you feel. You are worn out and you need a break. You also may be going through some kind of depression and should talk to your doctor, that would be a good idea. You can only help yourself. Cleaning stinks, especially doing it day in and day out, you need to talk to a doctor and your husband. Good luck to you and I hope you get the help you need.
2007-05-16 09:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by jdnsmama13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you do a few loads while you were cleaning the house?
Washing clothes is the most easiest chore I think.
You dont have to do anything,the machine does.
2007-05-16 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cutemum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know my mother went away to texas for a week so the day she was coming home i went to the house to help clean before she got home.. between my father and 2 brothers there was like 15 loads of laundry.. i was like omg i feel bad for her having to do this everyday! make them help!
2007-05-16 08:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by LOLLI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you totally normal. Tell them to help out. I like to stay on top of the laundry, but sometimes it doesn't happen, so when there is that much laundry I make my husband do it and I go shopping.
2007-05-16 08:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by dior.junkie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Perfectly normal to not want to clean. I want to not clean every day!
2007-05-16 08:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy Sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop your gibber jabbering woman.....stop messing about on here while you have work to do and get in that kitchen and do the washing fool! *Throws a Snickers at your head*
2007-05-16 09:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a mom and youre tired.. I don't blame you. I live by myself and i cry at the thought of cleaning!!
Can you hire a maid (or one of your kids!) to help?
2007-05-16 08:55:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋