mine has vanished!!! My kids are coming up 6 and 3 and I feel like I should be a nun!!!
Did your sex drive come back? Has anyone seen a sexual therapist, I'm thinking this could be my next port of call as my Dr is useless!!!
2007-05-16 00:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by treacle0511 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Thats normal, once you have children your sex drive doesn't vanish, it decreases because of the demands placed on you.
I had this same problem and found I had to make myself be sexual with my husband, once it started I was into it.
The problem is your tired and the last thing on your mind is physical activity. Try to set your mind on having a night with your husband and make it work.
Hope this helps and Good luck.
2007-05-16 00:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have freinds that dont care if they never do it again, they have lost any and all sex drive, you have to think your hormones change at different times and you are tired i expect after looking after the children and the house etc, some of my freinds sex drives have come back and some not, i have the opposite i have a much higher sex drive than my husband which drives him mad, he wishes i had no sex drive, dont worry so much about it, i have heard of people that take it slowly again with there partners, like courting again, you know nice meal together, maybe a bath or massage each other, your sex drive may come back when you are not feeling so tired or pressurised. if you try these things and still nothing then seek further help.
2007-05-16 10:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
You shouldn't have a sex drive for kids in the first place.
2007-05-16 00:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So glad i'm not alone my girls are 2 and 8 and I am not interested in the slightest, rather have a cuppa and a good sleep, think my husbands about to walk if I don't surrender soon, If you find a solution let me know.
2007-05-16 00:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It exits your body during Child birth .LOL Young children take care of any sexy moods you ever had.
You actually can nurture it back, but you have to work on it. It does not happen by accident.
Good Luck.
2007-05-16 00:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!! i was alright after the first two but after the third one nearly 2 years ago its vanished.
2007-05-18 01:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Emma L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the type of contraception you are using. If it has 'artificial' hormones eg. the pill, injection etc. they are known to reduce sex drive.
2007-05-16 00:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kyral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! Welcome to my world. Haven't seen a therapist but we try to arrange a "date" (child free 24 hrs) once a month.
That way he has something to look forward to. If you have doting grandparents, they can help out. Otherwise, arrange for a friend to mind yours one weekend and then you mind hers another weekend. It's kinda working!!!
2007-05-16 00:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel!!!! glad im not the only one! i have my moments but not very often anymore !!! (my little girl is 2 now!) i used to want it every day now im lucky if i want it once a month!!! lmao!!! let us know if u find a cure!!
2007-05-16 05:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by emma b06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you come see me and ill get your sex drive going again. email me at EAG_31489@yahoo.com and ill tell you some details.
2007-05-16 00:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋