so i have this guy friend and i kind of like him, he flirts with me alot. and i flirt with him back . he says he loves me and that he can't live without me, he's always grabing my butt and touching me, but what i don't understand is that he says he loves me but then he says he loves me like a sister! can someone tell me whats going on? i don't understand? is this how country guys roll? i'm so confused right now! i asked him that if he likes me why not go out with me bcuz i know we both want each other and his answer to me was, " i love you, but like a sister, i aint going to do anything with you sexually because i don't want to hurt you." i JUST DON'T GET IT!
2007-05-15 19:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by bonni 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
If he's sending one signal, and saying another, then you need to set him straight. Right now, he's getting to flirt and touch on you, and all the while he makes no commitment whatsoever (as in asking you on a date). This is juvenile behavior, and he needs to make up his mind. I would tell him that you respect yourself too much to hang out in limboland, so he needs to be just your friend, and HANDS OFF....or he can step up and start dating you. Either way, I wouldn't allow him to waffle, and you to wonder. Make him make a decision.
2007-05-15 19:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What exactly does this have to do with General Beauty & Style?
You answered your own question: " i love you, but like a sister, i aint going to do anything with you sexually because i don't want to hurt you."
Basically he wants you as a friend with benefits, but without the sexual contact, so no he doesn't really love you. He may be concerned about you but he doesn't have that love for you that's between most real couples. Get over him and enjoy your youth while it's still around. He's just your friend.
2007-05-16 00:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he really does only like u as just a sister or he really likes you and he is just scared to take it to the next level incase it doesnt work out because then he would lose you as a friend and you have to ask him just that ....say why dont we give it a shot and see what his answer is....if he sticks to his guns then that is how he really sees u as his sister type..or if he tells you that he thinks that its a scary thing for him then he doesnt want to lose u incase things go sour.then jst go from there good luck!!
2007-05-15 19:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you enough to know they he aint the one for ya. You both enjoy innocent flirting but his coppin' a feel is more like him gettin some play...stop him from coppin' a feel so that you wont get confused.
2007-05-15 19:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to listen to what he is saying. He loves you...like a sister. Some things just aren't that comlicated. So move on. Find someone who loves you...like a girlfriend.
2007-05-15 19:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE IS REALLY GAY?
2007-05-16 01:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by sabercat700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋