there is a reason why I never have, which I dont want to get into. So basically I cant have a girlfriend for another 3 months. What should I do in the meantime to make people think that im not gay??? The other day my mom even asked if I was gay and she was accusing me of it basically.
I am not gay by the way.
2007-05-15 17:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by heroin c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont have problems meeting girls
2007-05-15 17:27:14 · update #1
You will in time. You just have to approach girls and ask them out. Rejection is guaranteed, everyone gets rejected, although I must admit, I can't deal with rejection. That is why I let the guys hit on me first!!!
2007-05-15 17:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by trinitybombshella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this question is asked often. Anyways, it sounds like complete b.s, but it is true. If you keep thinking negatively, then chances are you wont find one. Hey, think about the people who have never had a gf who are much older than you. Im 16, and ive never had a bf either. Would you rather go out with a girl just to have a gf and find out that she's a ***** and not worth it, or would you rather wait a little longer, and find the most amazing girl that you've always dreamed of? Dont rush these things, your going to college or are in college right? I hope so, because that's when relationships are taken seriously. Dont let the media or your friends have an effect on your or pressure you to have one. Its not the best thing in the world, and you never know how the girl or the relationship would turn out. Your only 18, and you have your whole life to find someone. Personally, I love shy guys (not anti-social though). maybe you need to change your ways, and be confident enough to go up to a girl, and start a conversation. It might be hard, but its worth it right? How do you think other guys get gf's? Think about it, and if you put sometime into it, play the right cards, you'll have one before you know it. Dont ever change yourself to get a girl. There's always someone out there for everyone. Dont expect to automatically get a gf. Go out, have fun, and talk to girls. (not saying that you dont do these things, but idk you, so im just saying it just in case). Dont think about it too much, let the chips fall where they may. Best of Luck:)
2016-05-19 16:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you haven't had a girlfriend yet doesn't mean you're gay -- that's a stupid logic other people accuse you of. Whatever the reason is, do not feel like you have to "lie" just to get them off of your back. You do not have to rush into anything either; just do what you need to do first, and then worry about relationships later.
2007-05-15 17:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Quonx. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Had the same problem my freshman year of high school. I was quiet, never had a girlfriend at age 15, and I had quite a few accusations. No more after that, although I'm almost 20 and still haven't had a girlfriend...
2007-05-16 15:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by cougar3802 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it.
If your Mom thinks you're gay, than she doesn't know you all too well.
How sad, that you and your mother don't have a decent enough relationship that she would say that.
The ONLY reason I can think of that someone "CAN'T" have a girlfriend/boyfriend for a limited amount of time is because of some STD...or that you're waiting for an AIDS test.
2007-05-15 17:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not whether you had a girl friend or not that makes you gay. It's the feeling you have for the same gender that makes you gay. Even though your mother or friend says that you r gay it doesn't make you one. And there will be someone out there how you will love. i hope this helps you.
2007-05-15 19:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Neshadi W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, relax. First of all, why couldn't you have a girlfriend for three months? nevermind.
Why are you calling yourself 'heroin?' Do you find that attractive? I think that you have a few things to figure out or the kinds of girls you'll attract are likely to be druggies, if at all. I don't know what area you live in, so maybe that's considered normal.
2007-05-15 17:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live life normally. Say, "I just haven't met the right person yet..."
Well, if thats not the case, then in 3 months time you'll prove to whoever you're not gay.
2007-05-18 19:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry what peaple think of you just be your self dont no why you have to wait 3 months for thou but you can at least tell your mum so dont worry about what others say later on you will be able to tell them to shut up when you do have a girl freind any way all the best
2007-05-15 20:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be strong & ignore the comments. People thought I was lesbian because I was single for a long time, but I had to prove them wrong.
2007-05-15 17:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋