ok me and my friend met a guy just friday and we both like him and he is sweet and she really waqnts eo get with him and so do i but we dont want to lose our friendship. my friends past relationships have ended badly and wen she is around this one guy it makes her happy so i got up the courage and told her she can have him and now i am haveing second thoughts i dont know wat do to. also by liking him makes me relize how much i like another guy but i dont waqnt my friend to have that guy we both like.
2007-05-15 15:31:44 · 17 answers · asked by shy_grl_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For one thing, you made the right decision. You stood up to the plate, and have made things easier. Just go out with the other guy you like. If you are truly a good friend, you wont take it back. I know it may sound bad, but dont be selfish. A good friend does not say one thing, then do another. so just get with the other guy, and let your friend finally get a good relationship with someone she likes:)
2007-05-15 15:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your friend are really thick - you can't let a boy come between you. Girls often like the same guy - but the real question is always going to be WHO DOES HE LIKE? It really doesn't matter because sometimes the guy will see the two girls as opportunity and not care about your friendship - often guys will play you both and the next thing you know - you don't have a friend anymore. Find someone else. It might not work out anyway.
2007-05-15 22:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better solution would have been for both of you to leave that guy alone. No guy is worth jeopardizing your friendship. You thought you were doing the right thing, but in actuality you made the situation worse. Now you have to suck it up and deal with it. If you really value your friendship, then it won't be too hard to do. It's not like you knew him forever you just met him. Move on and stand by your girl.
2007-05-15 22:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should make a pact with your friend that when both of you like the same guy, NEITHER of you gets him. Because what will be the deciding factors next time? If all it takes to get the guy is to have had a bad past relationship and act like he makes you happy, then you can use that excuse every time. It's not worth the friendship. I say neither of you should pursue him. Good luck.
2007-05-15 22:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you like your friend? This once happened to me and the relationship with the guy wasn't worth the pain that it caused my friend and me. Ask yourself which one is more important to you: Your friend, or a guy who may or may not be around six months from now.
2007-05-15 22:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by teddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up! you let her have him now live up to your agreement. and if you like another guy then go out with the other guy! The one you let go is gone. Maybe in the future you will think more about a situation before you make a decision.
2007-05-15 22:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by bighelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your friend that it bothers u that she wants to get with him cause of course u do too. i would ask her if u both left him alone and juts be friends with him if htat would be ok. we u guys hang out with him u have to do it together and after a while (cause u did just ,meet him) u and her both will decide whether u still have the same feelings.
2007-05-15 22:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by kjokinen06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this is ur friend... u should have made a deal that if she didn't like him anymore u would get him second...lol-- umm if she dosen't agree to that forget about a guy because he is only 4 a month and ur bff is 4 life thats why its best friends for life.
2007-05-15 22:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by servant of AR-RAHIM mostMERCIFUL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. did you ever stop to think that he might not like either of you?
don't lose a friend just for some guy that won't be around for long.
how is it that you realize that you like another guy, by liking the first one? i think that you and your friend need to stop searching for guys, and find a hobby.
2007-05-15 22:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you let your alligator mouth over ride your canary @ss. You in a grand gesture told your friend, "You can have him, he is all yours!". You didn't say anything about let's both date him because I still want him also.
Since she has a habit of dumping her boyfriends regularly just sit back and bide your time.
2007-05-15 22:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋