PLZ Help!!!! ANYONE!!!!!! NOW!!!!!! MY LIFES FALLING APART!!!?

Question

all my "frends" ignor me except my bff so im mad at every1 except her 2 of my frends ignor me and when i get mad and ignor them they say,"were not doing anything! stop being so mean!" and its on my LAST nerve my other frend thinks im sooo mean cuz im mad at my frends hu ignor me so shes mad at me and all my other frends think its always time 2 play except wen there mad all my exfrends say "we dont do anything and we wunt 2 be ur frend but u dont act lik it so we changd our minds" and they r such HIPOCRYTES! i no i didnt spell it rite but i dont care anyway they made me cry 3 times today and insted of saying "im sry r u ok?" they say "y do u keep crying? ur such a baby!" which makes me cry mor and also my family is 2 buzi yelling at my brother 2 do his work and 4 making bs on his report card OH NO!!!(sarcastic) so they pay no attention 2 me and on top of all this im sick (i cant breath and i feel like i have strep)and they wont check me out cuz im not sik i just dont wont to go to skul!

Answer 1

Hey,
youre not alone. my parents dont pay attention to me either. i have 2 sisters. wanna be friends? we can talk through email. i really need a real friend right now. beleive me. ive spent so many nights crying myself to sleep. email me at [e-mail]
:)

Answer 2

Friends care about each other and talk about what's wrong. They resolve issues and move on. These girls sound like they enjoy making issues not resolving them, they aren't your friend. Get a thermometer check your temperature. Are you running fever? Look down your throat with a flashlight do you see pustules or is there simply mucus running down your throat from allergies. Allergies can feel like strep throat when mucus is constantly irritating the back of the throat. If you are running fever take the themometer to your parents. Keep the best friend and find some real friends to hang around with. They may not be the popular crowd but they will be true friends. Also, panic can make it difficult to breathe and you said you've had a rough day so try to relax, this could greatly ease your breathing. I'm a mom and all of these things my own daughters have went through. They took my advice and they have some pretty good friends, they can count on when they need to. They also now know the difference between allergies and strep throat.

Answer 3

Well Hi I am KAry and I will be your friend , Sounds to me like you've had a lot on your plate and me being female too I feel the same way as you do . I cry and my bf asks whats wrong? Like he has to ask , then he says you sure cry alot which hurts my feelings and makes me cry more too . Just breath in and out and step out side yourself and take your emotions out of it and see whats there. Sometimes our emotions just get in our way and if thats not it maybe you just need a shoulder to cry on and a heart you can rely on . I will be your friend feel free to email me and then we can talk on a more friend to friend level . Keep a smile i know life sometimes more than others lets us down . Time will pass we always get past all the bs , Well let me know . Your friend , Kary

Answer 4

Okay....

Take a really deep breath....hold it... and let it out

Let's take it one step at a time.

1. Friends who are ignoring you. It sounds to me like they are pushing your buttons to get a reaction from you. Mean (actually very mean). The next time that this happens, you say to them "Okay it seems like we're in the 1st grade when y'all want to be (whatever age you are) again, come find me. Walk away! Say it nicely, but DO NOT let these girls have this kind of power over you! Once they see that you will not be manipulated like this. You need to stop reacting to every little slight.

Something else to think about...Do you really want to be friends with a group of people who are trying to make you feel bad? Don't you want to be around people who make you feel good about yourself? Is it really worth it?

And finally, why don't you go and say to your mom or your dad. I have this problem and I just want you to listen because I'm realy upset.

It might make you feel better!

Go to school tomorrow and remember you are Fabulous!!!

Answer 5

seem he's nearly precise .. the two you have faith him or u dont .. he may be a warm sufficient guy that each female who see's him is going to hit on him .. so now what you desire to fasten him up? .. nicely you cant.. the two you have faith or permit bypass! i will understand an incident the place this style of request is warranted to stay away from issues yet while its each female that hits on him its not the girl its him and you ought to discover somebody you have faith or handles the situation to your liking reason it feels like he doesnt elect to alter nor ought to he if he doing not something incorrect. It sounds greater a like a private lack of self belief with your self particularly of him so perhaps you ought to come to a decision how obtainable your self while he's speaking to a different female. merely my opinion nevertheless take it for what its well worth!

Answer 6

You sound like You are on a emotional roller coaster maybe you should seek counseling.possibly having someone to talk to that you can just let it all out to will help.Talk someone whoever you feel comfortable with Your parents,your older siblings,younger sibling,your priest or local crossing guard whoever and see if they can help you.Maybe getting a impartial view of your problems will help you out.OK

Answer 7

BABY GIRL GET A GRIP, the world is never goin to change take it from me I've been where you are right now so listen carefully, you need to be your very best friend and you need to do in this world what pleases you, forget about everyone else if they aren't concerned with you don't concern yourself with them, I tried to fit in when I was that age and it didn't work for me either I wanted to kill them b's, so listen hold your head up dry your tears, and put your thoughts on paper and leave them their, give your problems to GOD and walk into to your future with him, no one can touch you their. ps go to school and talk to your counselor they are usually pretty cool they can help with your friends, home and just to talk when you need to. take care baby girl

Answer 8

Can I ask how old you are? Because if you're younger than 20, I really don't think in the grand scheme of things this is going to be more than a tiny blip on your radar. Sorry.

Answer 9

perhaps you could consider stopping the worry about what other people say and do, and focus on being the kind of person you'd like to meet.

why bother with the rest of it?

take care of YOU.

Answer 10

i have gone Thu this once and I've seen it happen alot you might just have to hold this out for awhile and then apologize i know you didn't do anything but it helps
good luck :)