i am currently friends with a married woman and the only time she emails is from work and when she sends them i am the only guy on her contact list the rest are women
2007-05-15 14:14:27 · 25 answers · asked by texas_dud88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her husband. I be she hasn't told him about you.
2007-05-15 14:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably spends most of her time at work, which is why she emails you from there. Being her only guy friend on the list isn't a red flag to me. Some people get along better with one gender over another. Also, being married doesn't mean she can have no male friends. Her friends are not her husband's business or domain to control, just as his aren't her business. If there's infidelity going on, that's different, but we're talking friendship.
I don't automatically send every amusing email I get to my partner - there are ones he wouldn't like as much - and some of these get sent to other guy friends, including an ex I have. My partner doesn't feel threatened because he knows there's nothing to worry about.
I hope it doesn't get awkward for you - good luck!
2007-05-15 21:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by a gal and her dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends with her, why would you find it strange that you are on her buddy list? Maybe she thinks of you as a good of a friend as her girlfriends. Not everyone has a bunch of male friends...especially if she is married. A lot of people only email from work. If she is married and has kids, and works, she is probably too busy to email people from home.
2007-05-15 21:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by K G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not strange. Get a grip. Maybe she's bored at work. Most people are and don't know what to do with their time. If a family member of hers is in the hospital and she's e-mailing you, then I'd think you had a groove going.
2007-05-15 21:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sam Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a very jealous husband and she doesn't talk to any other man than you. She probably emails from work so she doesn't have to worry about her husband freakin' out. Is there other things going on here that you aren't saying? What are you two talking about in your emails?
2007-05-15 21:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by pcchocoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are the emails inappropriate for a married woman? If not then maybe you have nothing to worry about but if you guys are talking about doing something then there is definitely something wrong.
2007-05-15 21:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by kristenrenepoindexter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing strange about that. Obviously, she thinks you "get" the female psyche! If she is including you in the list with other people, she isn't saying anything to you that others couldn't hear.
2007-05-15 21:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by maven 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's strange. Maybe you are her only guy friend. When she starts hitting on you or emailing you porn, then get worried.
2007-05-15 21:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kristy C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not really strange. She considers you as one of her friends in her buddy group. Women have more female "buddy" friends then male "buddy" friends. Same with men I would assume.
2007-05-15 21:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u work with her? and how did u meet her? if u work w/her than no, i email guys at work and i am married. it is possible to be friends w/the opposite sex.
2007-05-15 21:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by ladycarter22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is strange. I am guessing you don't work with her, and that you aren't the only guy in the office. It is weird.
2007-05-15 21:31:18 · answer #11 · answered by my_son_wants_to_know 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋